Justifying my desire to go to uni.
ASS-P wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
ASS-P wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
ASS-P wrote:
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...Yes. that could be nice. SF is just so stuffed with HL that..
I have thought that maybe I should go somewhere else, but where? Especially with being handicapped and not driving.
Regarding the poster below that . I haven't heard of such , nice " care houses - You were rather pushing a Patterson situation on me, more or less saying it was the best I could expect!
A Patterson situation is far superior to your current situation. Anything is a step above that.
Then, once you’re stable, you can look for something better (but don’t leave until you can move directly into the new place!).
Improvement is usually a gradual process. Most of us don’t go from a lousy situation to a great one all in one step.
...Thr trouble is, in my position, something such as what there was in Patterson would maybe not be something I could easily take a forward step from, but a tra ' especially considering. for two. " Daniel "'s apparent dedication to trying to Hoover away all my possessions and their lying to me about public transportation not existing in Patterson!
Twilightprincess wrote:
ASS-P wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I'd rather you get one of those apartments for medically fragile people where there's care nearby when you need it...but you can go out when you want, and invite people over when you want.
...Yes. that could be nice. SF is just so stuffed with HL that..
I have thought that maybe I should go somewhere else, but where? Especially with being handicapped and not driving.
Regarding the poster below that . I haven't heard of such , nice " care houses - You were rather pushing a Patterson situation on me, more or less saying it was the best I could expect!
A Patterson situation is far superior to your current situation. Anything is a step above that.
Then, once you’re stable, you can look for something better (but don’t leave until you can move directly into the new place!).
Improvement is usually a gradual process. Most of us don’t go from a lousy situation to a great one all in one step.
...Thr trouble is, in my position, something such as what there was in Patterson would maybe not be something I could easily take a forward step from, but a tra ' especially considering. for two. " Daniel "'s apparent dedication to trying to Hoover away all my possessions and their lying to me about public transportation not existing in Patterson!
Almost anything is better than being homeless.
...Like when I turned 21 in a state mental hospital, stuffed fill of Thorazine, etal , with a doctor saying about me " He"s not good for anything else but being on a back ward the rest of his life! " ? That wonderful slternative ?
I don’t think that’s very likely, especially if you cooperate with your treatment team. The mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds since then.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed q upon release including housing.
...The Psychiatric-Industrial Complex has never apologized to me for what they did to me. They have never sought me out to say We were wrong ". . They have never offered me a new miracle drug to fix at least SOME OF THE DAMAGE THEIR LAST MIRACLE DRUG DID TO ME!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
What damage has Thorazine caused you?
kraftiekortie wrote:
Thorazine causes tardive dyskinesia.
That does stigmatize people.
If somebody was agitated in a mental ward back then, they were put in restraints, given a shot of Thorazine, then placed in seclusion.
That does stigmatize people.
If somebody was agitated in a mental ward back then, they were put in restraints, given a shot of Thorazine, then placed in seclusion.
Right. I was curious to see if ASS-P had this particular side effect.
I used to take Thorazine, but it was a low dosage.
Twilightprincess wrote:
EzraS wrote:
A residential care home is not the same as a hospital. Especially not a psyche ward. There is no doctor on staff. Far as I know the staff that is there are not allowed to prescribe medication or treatment. At a residential care home one is a resident, not a patient. An independent person is free to vacate at any time. Apparently they will even load up your stuff, move you a hundred miles away and drop you off on the street. Although apparently not at a bargain rate.
I think he’s afraid that they will have him committed or something. Places don’t like involuntarily having people committed to psych units because they fear lawsuits.
Just avoid having huge temper tantrums, breaking stuff, or threatening to hurt yourself or others. - Sound advice for us all.
A care home isn't really part of the system. If someone was acting too erratic they would just evict. Really it's extremely more likely a hospital, like during an overnight ER stay, would hold someone for observation and then send them to a psyshe ward.
The difference between 30 years ago and now is there are not enough places for a person to be committed to. A big percentage of those who were committed were put out on the street because the resources no longer exist.
In other words it's most likely very difficult to to get committed long term even for someone who wants it.
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...What is.TD?
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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!
Twilightprincess wrote:
Almost anything is better than being homeless.
ASS-P wrote:
...Like when I turned 21 in a state mental hospital, stuffed fill of Thorazine, etal , with a doctor saying about me " He"s not good for anything else but being on a back ward the rest of his life! " ? That wonderful slternative ?
Twilightprincess wrote:
I don’t think that’s very likely, especially if you cooperate with your treatment team. The mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds since then.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed upon release including housing.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed upon release including housing.
I'm sorry to say that I'm upset by this optimism, although I agree that almost anything is better than homelessness.
But Twilightprincess, are you aware that ASS-P is referring to an event when he turned 21 in 1980? I remember those days well, and the decades that preceeded them. That quote of the doctor was a common song of psychiatrists in those days. People who remember those days aren't going to believe things have improved. And there is the prisoner aspect, as well as total lack of patient rights. But your experience sounds great. Except ...
Except that I was an out-patient at a psych ward in 1997, so these modern ways should have existed then. Nominally, they did. There was an in-house social worker who taught us how to look up government services in the phone book, noting that we are to use the blue pages in the middle. This took him an hour. But being older and experienced, I knew there were dozens of subdivisions of kinds of housing and we got no instruction on that. For the amount of help he gave, he might as well have said nothing at all.
Did he even tell us that "Tax" is listed under "Revenue"? Nope. Zero help from the social worker. Housing? Not a word.
I can't believe that the mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds, or even millimetres. I'm sorry but I have to get this off my chest.
EzraS wrote:
I am pretty sure Twilight Princess was referring to 1980 when she said things have improved by leaps and bounds since then.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
That’s right although I’d imagine that things have also improved since 1997...
Living in a care home is the way to go, I believe. It’s crucial that ASS-P puts his main focus on stabilizing his health.
Claradoon wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
Almost anything is better than being homeless.
ASS-P wrote:
...Like when I turned 21 in a state mental hospital, stuffed fill of Thorazine, etal , with a doctor saying about me " He"s not good for anything else but being on a back ward the rest of his life! " ? That wonderful slternative ?
Twilightprincess wrote:
I don’t think that’s very likely, especially if you cooperate with your treatment team. The mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds since then.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed upon release including housing.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed upon release including housing.
I'm sorry to say that I'm upset by this optimism, although I agree that almost anything is better than homelessness.
But Twilightprincess, are you aware that ASS-P is referring to an event when he turned 21 in 1980? I remember those days well, and the decades that preceeded them. That quote of the doctor was a common song of psychiatrists in those days. People who remember those days aren't going to believe things have improved. And there is the prisoner aspect, as well as total lack of patient rights. But your experience sounds great. Except ...
Except that I was an out-patient at a psych ward in 1997, so these modern ways should have existed then. Nominally, they did. There was an in-house social worker who taught us how to look up government services in the phone book, noting that we are to use the blue pages in the middle. This took him an hour. But being older and experienced, I knew there were dozens of subdivisions of kinds of housing and we got no instruction on that. For the amount of help he gave, he might as well have said nothing at all.
Did he even tell us that "Tax" is listed under "Revenue"? Nope. Zero help from the social worker. Housing? Not a word.
I can't believe that the mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds, or even millimetres. I'm sorry but I have to get this off my chest.
Being in a psych ward is never a “great” experience, but things are in no way as bad as they used to be.
Patients do have rights. They just aren’t always aware of what those rights are.
I don’t like speaking against inpatient psych treatment because, for people who are at risk of hurting themselves or others, it’s better than the alternative.
I’m not being optimistic. I’m being realistic. ASS-P can improve his situation (by going into a care home). It’s by no means hopeless.
Twilightprincess wrote:
Claradoon wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
Almost anything is better than being homeless.
ASS-P wrote:
...Like when I turned 21 in a state mental hospital, stuffed fill of Thorazine, etal , with a doctor saying about me " He"s not good for anything else but being on a back ward the rest of his life! " ? That wonderful slternative ?
Twilightprincess wrote:
I don’t think that’s very likely, especially if you cooperate with your treatment team. The mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds since then.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed upon release including housing.
I’ve been in a psych ward. It wasn’t an awful experience. The doctors certainly weren’t endeavoring to overmedicate me, and there was social service workers on the premises to help people get services that they needed upon release including housing.
I'm sorry to say that I'm upset by this optimism, although I agree that almost anything is better than homelessness.
But Twilightprincess, are you aware that ASS-P is referring to an event when he turned 21 in 1980? I remember those days well, and the decades that preceeded them. That quote of the doctor was a common song of psychiatrists in those days. People who remember those days aren't going to believe things have improved. And there is the prisoner aspect, as well as total lack of patient rights. But your experience sounds great. Except ...
Except that I was an out-patient at a psych ward in 1997, so these modern ways should have existed then. Nominally, they did. There was an in-house social worker who taught us how to look up government services in the phone book, noting that we are to use the blue pages in the middle. This took him an hour. But being older and experienced, I knew there were dozens of subdivisions of kinds of housing and we got no instruction on that. For the amount of help he gave, he might as well have said nothing at all.
Did he even tell us that "Tax" is listed under "Revenue"? Nope. Zero help from the social worker. Housing? Not a word.
I can't believe that the mental health field has improved by leaps and bounds, or even millimetres. I'm sorry but I have to get this off my chest.
Being in a psych ward is never a “great” experience, but things are in no way as bad as they used to be.
Patients do have rights. They just aren’t always aware of what those rights are.
I don’t like speaking against inpatient psych treatment because, for people who are at risk of hurting themselves or others, it’s better than the alternative.
I’m not being optimistic. I’m being realistic. ASS-P can improve his situation (by going into a care home). It’s by no means hopeless.
...This is an old item. The Patterson b&c (if that's what it purported toe - It was not a
licenced/" official " whatever-it-was-supposed-to-be, nnyway) is months in the past! There is NO " oh, pwetty pwease, won't you come on in. out of the cold? b&c - or anything else ' gesturing st me!
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Renal kidney failure, congestive heart failure, COPD. Can't really get up from a floor position unhelped anymore:-(.
One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!
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Twilightprincess wrote:
EzraS wrote:
I am pretty sure Twilight Princess was referring to 1980 when she said things have improved by leaps and bounds since then.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
That’s right although I’d imagine that things have also improved since 1997...
Living in a care home is the way to go, I believe. It’s crucial that ASS-P puts his main focus on stabilizing his health.
I can understand someone who is used to being independent and used to roaming about all the time feeling confined in a care home at first. For me it's what I am already used to. Except for going out for a walk I spend most of my time in my room at home. So with the care home I will just be transferring from the room I occupy presently to that room. As long as I have my bed, desk chair, desk, 32" TV/monitor and my laptop I will be a happy camper. I also have an easy chair but I mostly sit in my desk chair.
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EzraS wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
EzraS wrote:
I am pretty sure Twilight Princess was referring to 1980 when she said things have improved by leaps and bounds since then.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
That’s right although I’d imagine that things have also improved since 1997...
Living in a care home is the way to go, I believe. It’s crucial that ASS-P puts his main focus on stabilizing his health.
I can understand someone who is used to being independent and used to roaming about all the time feeling confined in a care home at first. For me it's what I am already used to. Except for going out for a walk I spend most of my time in my room at home. So with the care home I will just be transferring from the room I occupy presently to that room. As long as I have my bed, desk chair, desk, 32" TV/monitor and my laptop I'm usually a happy camper. I also have an easy chair but I mostly use my desk chair.
Do you want to move from your parents’ house?
Twilightprincess wrote:
EzraS wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
EzraS wrote:
I am pretty sure Twilight Princess was referring to 1980 when she said things have improved by leaps and bounds since then.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
Also I believe she was saying living in a room and board care home is better than being homeless.
That’s right although I’d imagine that things have also improved since 1997...
Living in a care home is the way to go, I believe. It’s crucial that ASS-P puts his main focus on stabilizing his health.
I can understand someone who is used to being independent and used to roaming about all the time feeling confined in a care home at first. For me it's what I am already used to. Except for going out for a walk I spend most of my time in my room at home. So with the care home I will just be transferring from the room I occupy presently to that room. As long as I have my bed, desk chair, desk, 32" TV/monitor and my laptop I'm usually a happy camper. I also have an easy chair but I mostly use my desk chair.
Do you want to move from your parents’ house?
Yes it is my decision. My family has taken care of me long enough and I am an adult so I should have my own digs.