The best way to teach that life is unfair is to be unfair. The best way to teach that those with power can abuse it is to abuse your power.
I know this is a very old thread, but the topic is as relevant today as it’s always been, so …
RainSong wrote:
I agree with Truth-Seeker. I'd really like to go to an Ivy League College (and I'm sure there are others here like that too) and to have a grade lowered (possibly significantly - I know here they like lowering the quarter grades a whole letter) could damage that chance.
I detest most whole class punishments. Loss of talking privileges are ok with me (or today we lost the ability to do the walking course in Health and Wellness, and to be honest, I find that an improvement). Other things though, like when an entire class gets detention, is a whole other story. The people who did whatever wrong in the first place will not be moved. In fact, I know that most of them tend to be amused when the entire class gets in trouble for something one or two people did. So what are the teachers teaching as a lesson? Everyone else is responsible for your faults?
I also don't like when teachers say something like, "If you had stopped him/her, you wouldn't be in this situation!" Um, excuse me? Am I the teacher? No. Am I the parent? Nope. Do I have any interest whatsoever in trying to control the kid when I know full well that it will just result in further problems? No. Don't try and pass off your lack of control onto the class. Deal with the individual by yourself, on your own time, and without screwing up everyone else.
And the teacher’s answer is, “Make me!”. That’s the whole point: the more they harm you for someone else’s actions, the more you’re supposed to hate that person. Not the authority figure inflicting the punishment, that is. It promotes vigilantism. If only you’d have lynched that person, you wouldn’t have your future career prospects ruined. The teacher does it because they can. Unfortunately, autistics probably tend to focus on the abuse of power and hate the teacher instead, generally only to our own further detriment. Neurotypicals instinctively know to attack the one they know they can lynch and automatically make them the target of their hate.
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The red lake has been forgotten. A dust devil stuns you long enough to shroud forever those last shards of wisdom. The breeze rocking this forlorn wasteland whispers in your ears, “Não resta mais que uma sombra”.