Surrounded by hostile and stupid people at school.

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sunquan8094
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20 May 2010, 12:48 am

Man! So many stupid people at my school!

I go to a school where the faculty understands my Aspergers. (That has totally nothing to do with this post, but I just thought I'd post it.) Some of my classmates I feel are stupid. (and all the related adjectives.)

This kid thinks he knows history and racially insults me. Because my FB political views say "Communist Party of China," he comments that they "annex commies." It's really what my political views are, but this kid needs to get his facts straight; he's using "annex" improperly. Another example: he claims that Nazis are communist, which they are not. Maybe he's just doing that to tick me off.

That is the only instance I can think of. On to the hostile part.

There is this girl who thinks I annoy her, takes out her anger on me, and shuts me down and/or off whenever I have an opinion. I don't even do anything to her. She thinks my opinions are inane and annoying; she doesn't even try to see the logic in it. On some mornings before school, she will come up to me and:

For x = 1 To About 5 or 6
Punch()
Next

BTW, she smiles when she does so.

Another girl I have a crush on calls me mean, probably because I called her annoying. How is she so, you ask?

Her.Car.Door.Open()
Her.GetUp()
Her.Car.Door.Close()
Her.Rotate(180)
Her.WalkTo(Cafeteria) //That's where I hang out
Her.Yell("Future husband!! !")
Her.Hug(SoCalledFutureHusband)
Her.SitOn(SoCalledFutureHusband.Lap)
Do
Her.TalkOnAndOn()
Me.Yell("GTMFHO!") And Me.PointRight()
Her.Yell("NO!!")
Her.TalkOnAndOn()
Loop

She won't add me as a friend on FB because she thinks I will look at her pictures all the time. I respect that. She also thinks everything I touch is contaminated.

And nearly everyone at school is hostile to me. I get called "(a bundle of sticks)", my homophobia and racist thinking is made fun of, and I get made fun of about girls. That's all I have

What do I do?


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20 May 2010, 1:29 am

You have to understand that only exceptionally intelligent students are going to care at all about the legal definition of "annex" or whether the Nazis were Communists. Think of some aspect of popular culture you find incredibly stupid and annoying. Visualize it, relish that perfect disinterest and absolute disdain. I think that's how most people, especially young people, feel about pretty much anything besides popular culture, sex, drugs, and the social game.

This might help you:

http://www.rogernmeyer.com/Hubert_Cross ... y_2002.htm


Homophobia might mean you're homosexual. There's nothing wrong with that, but I had a gay friend in high school who got beat up for it. Look at why you feel that way, and keep it to yourself. I personally have great empathy for homosexuals because they are universally crapped on for something they can't control, like you.

Keep your racism to yourself. Not only can ethnic minorities run circles around you socially like everyone else, but they're probably much tougher and stronger, and they stick together. Not to mention that they have it harder in life than you because people discriminate unfairly against them -- sound familiar?



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20 May 2010, 1:56 am

Something I've learned, people react to their emotions. This makes sense to me. I hear the person in front of me make fun of the guy with Down's Syndrome, the rest of the people around us join in. The guy doesn't realize what's happening and laughs. He's getting attention, but doesn't understand the context, so he enjoys it. Our teacher hears what's happening, but ignores it. This is wrong, and I get angry.
I tell them to stop, and they become verbally violent to me as well as mocking him. For some reason, Verbal Abuse is wrong against women. A man telling a woman she is stupid, worthless, and her opinion is not valid is legally equal to hitting her, but to a male is normal. I don't know about you, but if I tell someone to STFU, learn towards them in an aggressive manner, and threaten physical assault, in an attempt try to dominate them, it's accepted as reasonable to use physical force against me.
If I am assaulted this is acceptable, as I should have known better. I should have backed down or stayed quiet. If on the other hand I resort to physical assault against the would be dominator and verbal abuser then I am in the wrong and unstable.
But I digress. Why we as a species have spent so much time developing language, specifying the parameters of the meaning of the words we use, teaching it to each other, then blatantly ignoring it defies me. We hold Plato in such high regard, the Father of modern thought patterns, but we ignore what is considered his masterpiece, Utopia. Utopia was in fact a Communist society.
What scares me is that the NORMAL people around me cry about how unequal and wrong the world is, but are unable to break from their conditioning. The US is a Capitalist regime, run with Communist subtexts. Social Security, Welfare, Food Stamps, and Health Care. Capitalist (C) dogma says "Work, Produce, Earn, or Starve. The strong survive, the weak die. Communist dogma is about the community, as a whole. The guy who spends 25 years researching a disease not only earns no profit during that time, he in fact drains the resources of the people who laboring for profit. In the end this benefits everyone.The Community supports him during this time for it's benefit. Why should the people who work for 5 years on TV show live like kings while those that grow, transport, and prepare their food live like slaves?
There used to be a saying, "When in Rome, DO AS THE ROMANS DO." If you think another race, another culture is significantly better than yours, enough to leave your own people and what they have managed to produce in order to better you position, then you have no right to speak out against it. A Cat who says that Dogs are slaves for answering to their humans while enjoying the benefits of a Dogs relations to Humans should be tortured and put down. If you enter the world of the Dog, then you are expected to act like one. If you think your belief system is better, then stay there, and prove it. Otherwise, accept the culture you chose, adapt, and SHUT THE F UP! WHAT YOU LEFT WAS WRONG, THAT IS WHY YOU LEFT FOR SOMETHING BETTER! Continuing to extol it, to teach it to your offspring or young is only going to degrade what you LEFT IT FOR! In the end, you're only going to have WHAT YOU LEFT.
I'm sorry if I seem off point, I wish I could explain myself better, but in the end, you'll just have to appect thwe the people around you are in fact idiots. They say that Red means stop and Green means go, but they will continue to get in wrecks because they don't think that it applies to them. They want a big refund on their taxes, big paychecks, low prices at the store, good healthcare, and a voice in their government. Everyone wants to be treated like a Princess. The sad part is that NOONE want to accept the downside to that treatment. Princess are coddled, given everything for a reason. One day EVERY princess will be SOLD as a ROYAL WHORE for the benefit of the state. They will become the concubine of a stranger, expected to OBEY, BREED with (f**k), and be subservient to whomever the KING decides is best for, wait or it, THE PEOPLE. That's right, the people. In the end, the PEOPLE might rise up and displace (KILL) the king if things go wrong, so his daughters are little more than WHORES for the benefit of the Kingdom (People who pay taxes).
If nothing else, think of that last bit whenever you meet a Princess. When you're calling them a little whore in your head, at least you're being literally correct. So if you stab them in the throat with a pencil you're being a patriot. Chances are they're so spoiled they'd only serve to DEGRADE the 'kingdom" (country) you live in.



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20 May 2010, 4:57 am

Dogs have a heiarchy which they adhere to.

Humans do not.

Different thing - terrible analogy.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indentation



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20 May 2010, 7:58 pm

with(this)

directToward(sunquan8094); //@sunquan8094:
approve(OP.codeBlock); //Yay! Talking in computer code!
for(all people)
approve((Conversation)codeBlock); //Everyone needs a little more computer codetalk in their conversations! =D
end for

disapprove(homophobia);
disapprove(racism);

directToward(Ferdinand);
disapprove((Command)NULL) //You can't indent on a forum. Don't ask people to. Mostly I'm just saying this for an excuse to do something weird like cast a null value into some imaginary "Command" object more than to attack you. Don't take it too personally. xD

directToward(Skittius);
suggest((Command)"Skittius.use(Key.ENTER)"); //Use more hard breaks. They make your writing more legible.

end with;

-------------------------------------------------

...Alright, so maybe I should stop trying to say everything in code.... It stops being cool when I have to explain everything I say. xD


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20 May 2010, 8:48 pm

sunquan8094 wrote:
Her.Car.Door.Open()
Her.GetUp()
Her.Car.Door.Close()
Her.Rotate(180)
Her.WalkTo(Cafeteria) //That's where I hang out
Her.Yell("Future husband!! !")
Her.Hug(SoCalledFutureHusband)
Her.SitOn(SoCalledFutureHusband.Lap)
Do
Her.TalkOnAndOn()
Me.Yell("GTMFHO!") And Me.PointRight()
Her.Yell("NO!!")
Her.TalkOnAndOn()
Loop


That was a bit rude of you. Why did you yell at her? You can't expect someone to like you very much if you call them 'annoying' and shout at them.

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And nearly everyone at school is hostile to me. I get called "(a bundle of sticks)", my homophobia and racist thinking is made fun of, and I get made fun of about girls. That's all I have

What do I do?


I suggest not sharing your 'homophobia and racist thinking' with your class. If you discriminate against people, you can't complain when they discriminate right back at you, or others stand up on their behalf.

As for being made fun of, I think if you don't give them so much ammunition or reason to dislike you (insulting them), some of it may die down. The rest, you may be best to ignore if you can, and avoid confrontations with these people. If your school has an anti-bullying policy, maybe talk to a teacher about it, but I really think you should look at modifying your own actions first.
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Princess are coddled, given everything for a reason. One day EVERY princess will be SOLD as a ROYAL WHORE for the benefit of the state. They will become the concubine of a stranger, expected to OBEY, BREED with (f**k), and be subservient to whomever the KING decides is best for, wait or it, THE PEOPLE. That's right, the people. In the end, the PEOPLE might rise up and displace (KILL) the king if things go wrong, so his daughters are little more than WHORES for the benefit of the Kingdom (People who pay taxes).
If nothing else, think of that last bit whenever you meet a Princess. When you're calling them a little whore in your head, at least you're being literally correct. So if you stab them in the throat with a pencil you're being a patriot. Chances are they're so spoiled they'd only serve to DEGRADE the 'kingdom" (country) you live in.


OK, seriously, wtf?



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20 May 2010, 11:23 pm

Lol, I found the princess analogy amusing and cute, in a morbid sort of way. I have a morbid sense of humor though. Although at the end there it really does go too far. .___.;


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09 Aug 2010, 9:59 pm

Ferdinand wrote:
Dogs have a heiarchy which they adhere to.

Humans do not.



Are you joking? 8O


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10 Aug 2010, 4:45 am

Code:
if (human = teenager)
    assumeStupidity;
else
   {
   assumeSlightlyLessStupid;
   }


Hey, I like this new "write forum messages in code" thing :lol:

I must say, though, that in regards to this:

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my homophobia and racist thinking is made fun of


You deserve it.



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13 Aug 2010, 11:05 pm

I was severely bullied and told it was my fault. My parents had to take me out and homeschool me but my mom still makes me feel as if the bullying was my fault.


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