IEP's, Aides, Computers... They had none of that in late 80's and early 90's when I was in grade school.
The most third party attention I got was weekly counseling sessions with the school psychologists where we'd sit down and discuss what I did right and wrong.
When I was in junior high school, the school wanted to put me into the chapter 1 program for troubled and "differently abled" children, but my evaluation said I wasn't stupid enough to gain entry.
In high school, I had adapted to the point where I was able to get done what I needed to in order to graduate, but there were some close calls along the way.
If they have services there to help you, by all means, USE THEM!
I had to fend for myself along with everyone else, and I somehow managed to do it.
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I live my life to prove wrong those who said I couldn't make it in life...