My bullying dilema

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Well, at the beginning of the previous term,my councellor showed a DVD to my year level, demostrating AS. People certainly started to treat me kinder, although some people treated me like I was mentall handicapt. The other 2 people in my year who has AS (one has AS moderately, and one has it to a degree where it is unnoticable, and then there is me -with it mildly) mentioned nothing of it, but most other people did ask me about the condition, and I replied to all those who I am acquainted with (I do not talk to stranges BTW).

Well, a term went by, and my #2 bully from before the DVD, starting to have his old attitude back with me. Doing things like glaring at me, and speaking harshly and too bluntly.

As things pregressed, his bullying became far more serious, and now it has reached its peak. He has got to the stage where he tells me I am living a life not worth living, and that he hates me, and I am a stupid - Ass Burger that is socially ret*d (Also harsher things that are too X rated for these forums, that also, I do not care to discuss). It has got to the stage where I was SO close to having a mental meltdown. I fear I will tomorrow. I am usually passive, but I want to kill this boy!

He is definately a bully, and he has Metabolism disorder, and he surely must weight more than most adults. I did comment on his weight when he said I was not good enough for school, and he would have pummled me if I hadn't ran away.

I fear that if he does not quit, I will believe these insults, resulting in depression, and even suicide.

Please, folks of WP, help find solutions, and suggest them to me, so that I can, once again go to school with this big fat #&%hole ruining my life and education!

BTW - After watching this DVD, he found out that people with AS like to sit in the same seating position, so now, he sits in my 'seat', resulting in near meltdowns.

I would start to analyze him publicly every time he did something resembling bullying you or others. I would make him a case study. "Ask him about his mother or home life?" He must be pretty miserable or have feelings for you and that his only reaction is to direct his emotions with abuse. You also have to top him when he tries to insult you verbally. I've read this confuses the bully. If what they are doing is strong enough to be harassment. I wonder if you can report them them?

Choose another seat across the room from your usual one. Make this your new seat. Sit in it. If he takes your old seat, no problem. If he takes your new seat, then you get your old seat back. He can't sit in both at the same time.

Is there any reason why you can't tell a teacher?

I am too scared too.