a**hole social worker

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This social worker at my first high school forced me sign a student complaint form against this girl in my class for rape and molestation just cuz she liked me. He called me into the office, and kept me there until I signed it. otherwise he would NOT let me leave that office.

And then he went into my classroom to make an announcement to the students, and he's like, "Nicole's molesting Ryan." B*stard.

He and my self contained teacher would always tell my private business to the class. Like exactly why I couldn't come to school one day.

what??? that is weird!! just because a student liked you the school social worker wanted you to sign a form saying she was molesting you?? omg where are these social worker's minds at??? in the gutter?? sick!

i do agree though in special ed it seems everyone gets into your personal business teachers, social workers,school psycologists,nurse, i wont be surprized if even the JANITER!

i feel to the aspergers syndrome student or any special ed student that the only thing they should do is TEACH not get into everything they are thinking of or doing and getting too personal. teaching is their business not knowing when your period is.(if your a girl)

i also feel that just because you dont have freinds and love fixing things(or your special interest) it dont mean u have a learning disorder. i personally never told anyone my personal friends because its not what i was at school to do. school isnt a place to sociallize its a place to learn

whatever happened to something called student PRIVACY???

best thing to do is complain to board of ed and see if its in their policies to have students sign rape and molestation forms against people if the opposite gendered student says something nice.

I feel sorry for you and am glad you're not dealing with him again.

How old are you - over 18? If not then I don't think he is really allowed to have you sign a form you didn't want to without letting you call your parents. If you are over 18 then I don't think he really had any legal right to force you to do anything and he could be in trouble for holding you against your will and intimidating you into signing the form. I would REALLY look into contacting someone outside your school about this - like even the special education director for the district or someoen at the ISD (if you are in the U.S.).

When I was in high school some friends told me that the school counselor had told some kids OUT LOUD in psychology class about me. It was no secret that I was different, but he had no business discussing personal things like that even if he thought he was being helpful. I wouldn't have done anything except my one religion teacher was really outraged when he found out and went straight to the principal. The counselor was "released from his contract" which is a nice way of saying he wasn't going to be working in the school anymore.

17. that's why someday i'm gonna get back at that $hithead, as I know I have an advantage.

It sounds like you might have grounds to sue the social worker for a human rights violation in the form of sexual harassment. It doesn't seem right to me that he can force a sexual harassment complaint, because that, in itself, seems a form of sexual harassment.

You might want to consider going to this girl, saying you where forced to sign this and that you don't actually feel this this way. And that if there are ever any consequences that arise from it (court and the like) you would say that you where forced to do this.

Mind you, if a situation like that does come up, I'm sure people will talk down to you because everyone seems to talk down to each other. So try not to let those people get to you (the world is full of small people in positions that are bigger then them)


Also, it's always nice when someone likes you


I also agree that you should file a sexual harrasment complaint. Mind you it's a bit strange of a situation that might be hard to relate, or get people to understand that it is sexual harrasment. But you should do something vicious to them, especially if it gets them in trouble with the law (and it really should)

Actually it is not that uncommon for an employer or some person in a position of power to force a complaint against a third party. There are many reasons people do this. Often out of some misguided idea about how such matters should be handled or not, or to gain some advantage such as the ability to move up in the workplace by destroying the reputation of the accused or otherwise manipulating events in order to move up in a hierarchy.

It sounds complicated, but I do believe this misuse of the sexual harassment complaint process is not all that uncommon.

How stupid!! !! !! !! !! !! !

Yuck!

Let me get this straight, if a girl shows interest at a guy in school, it's considered rape??
I wonder what your socal worker been smoking.
I had a girl last week told me she liked my hair, so I guess I better have her arrested for molestation.
What a momumental tool.