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Epsilon
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30 Jan 2014, 6:38 pm

I wasn't sure whether this should be in the advocacy forum but I saw a group of boys (A B and C) indirectly bullying a boy (D) with autism in my high school today. (Gym class). Boy A was pretending to kick a girl and D took it literally as offensive and scolded A. A laughed and walked away to B and C where he whispered a string of intolerant trash, for lack of a better word, to them, and all three laughed. Then boy A proceeded to do the same thing again, possibly to get the same reaction. I wish I could have said something but with all the anger I had I don't know if it would have ended well. Naturally the teachers were talking in some corner and everyone else was in their cliques. A and the others have done similar things to individuals they perceive as 'different' before.
By the way, I have already given a detailed presentation on autism to this VERY class (Health class portion)..
What can I do besides talking to a counselor, who will likely tell me to ignore them? Am I overreactin(g?
(Please don't say this is what high school is about.)


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Your Aspie score: 104 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 96 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits


Waterfalls
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30 Jan 2014, 6:46 pm

Would you consider not responding to the tormentors and spending a few minutes being social and talking to D like he is a person? You know, try to counter what they did wrong by doing something right, ask if he's ok, talk about something so he knows his opinion matters to someone.