Why do people do this???

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A few months ago two dumb people at school came to the place where me and my friends were sitting and said its their place, the next few weeks we sat in the same place then they came again and asked us to move for them but we didn't reply so that person started talking to me calling me 'I don't what your name' - I think that was rude not to consider about wanting to move us from the place, anyways months passed since then and this week the friend who was with that person kept showing off too much in front of me, almost everytime I see this person in front of me this person gets excited and anxious and starts showing off but this time it was more then after that we were walking and the place was crowded and my friend was with me, this show off stupid human was in front us then turned to one of the people and said 'why is this walking behind us' then someone threw a paper in my way, I assume it was one of them. I want to know why people do that? Is that a form of bullying?? And why do they bully me I'm not even in the same class as them?? I don't even look at them when we're in the same place, I completely ignore their existence so why do they associate with me??
I talked to someone about this earlier and that person said those people wanted to be friends with me but I didn't pay attention to them so I came off as aloof to them so they started to be like that to me feeling rejected because they first wanted to sit with us, but I didn't take that because why would you try to harm someone you want to be friends with, so why do you think they do that?? And why they picked me mostly rather than my other friends???

It is either bullying or them just being jerks. I highly doubt based on what was described that they are or were trying to be friends with you. I see no way that what they are doing is a friend making method, doesn't make sense to me.

Bullies ... jerks ... chavs ... what's the difference?

I also think that they're bullies or something like that

The problem is I don't know how to get rid of them because being mean to them or ignoring them won't help since I already ignore them and don't know them anyway and never spoke to them so I can't be mean too. They made me so depressed and angry I don't have time for them and their bully drama that I had thoughts of killing them and how to kill them or torture them, but it got better now but whenever I will see them again I know I would get very angry and depressed again, I can't avoid seeing them and I don't want to have those thoughts and feelings again.

Because people can be conniving and devious. Whether or not they wanted to be friends in the first place, this just shows their true behavior of taking their insecurities out on other people like such little children. Continue to ignore them, show no emotion, they will move on in time. If they know they are getting to you it will just make them want to do it more. People can be such animals. I can't even fathom what the inside of these individuals minds look like.

I always ignore them and show no emotion but I don't like how they keep targeting me only, they make me feel theres something in me which makes me disliked or makes me a target for bullying or something that others can use to drop their insecurities and anger at and I can know what that thing is which makes me feel more disrespected, humilated, upset, weak and pressured

They just found a target to bully. It's not YOU, per se.

Ignore them. I'm glad you're holding your ground.

I wish I understood why people do these things, possibly because they're really childish about handling being brushed off or maybe they are jealous of you for some reason. It's most likely something isn't wrong with you, it's something that's wrong within them. Most people have way more insecurities than they're willing to show.

I already ignore them lol and it seems to work because they don't come to where I am now
I guess they wanted someone who isn't with a crowd so it would be easier to pick at or for some other stupid reasons but I don't care lol I was so curious in the start because I was already stressed so anything would let me down and make me doubt myself lol.

If that was me in the situation where they were claiming it was their spot I would have said, "It doesn't have your name written on it you big baby" and continue talking to a friend. When they try to keep saying something just continue talking to your friend and ignore them.

Throw a paper ball back at them. Smear dog poop on their "spot".

My friend actually said that to them and we didn't reply or look at them lol
They don't do much things now except one of them smiling to the other whenever they see me which still annoys me