my nan has died

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spike2006
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05 Mar 2007, 3:38 pm

do u have any tips how to cope with grieving im finding it very hard.
has anyone else had someone they love die too? :cry:

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05 Mar 2007, 5:17 pm

at first i can't accept something when it's gone and lost forever. sooner or later i have to cope with the fact that they're never coming back...don't know if this will help you but it always seem to help me when something great ends and i didn't want it to end:"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." - Dr. Seuss

http://mt.essortment.com/stagesofgri_rvkg.htm

you'll most likely go through those stages.

that's really all the help i can give you...

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05 Mar 2007, 7:45 pm

I feel that letting the emotion out is a natural and good thing to do. If you bottle it all up then it'll escape some other way, whether it'll be positive (like writing) or negative (acts of rage and hurting others).

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spike2006
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07 Mar 2007, 4:13 pm

THANK YOU FOR REPLYING IM GOING TO THE FUNRAL TOMOROW AND IM VERY NERVOUS :cry:

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07 Mar 2007, 5:01 pm

spike2006 wrote:

THANK YOU FOR REPLYING IM GOING TO THE FUNRAL TOMOROW AND IM VERY NERVOUS :cry:

have you ever been to a funeral? if you haven't then it might be a slight shock to see an actual dead person.

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07 Mar 2007, 5:56 pm

spike2006 wrote:

THANK YOU FOR REPLYING IM GOING TO THE FUNRAL TOMOROW AND IM VERY NERVOUS :cry:

different people react differently.

Some people fall to bits and cry. Others seem to show no emotion at all at the funeral. Either way is ok. We are all individuals.

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07 Mar 2007, 9:56 pm

As it is a funeral, it is okay to cry and let your emotions out (except for anger and frustration). Also try and be nice to the others around you, ie Don't act stupid and as if you don't really care.

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08 Mar 2007, 6:34 pm

:cry: I'm so sorry to hear that! :cry: Once, My aunt died and I only met her once and for about a 15 min. period

spike2006
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11 Mar 2007, 2:59 pm

thank you all for your replies i've been to the funral all was sad :cry: but i am glad i went to my nans funral so i could say godbye :cry:

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11 Mar 2007, 3:37 pm

I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling sad because of the death of your Nan.
Maybe you could do something to remember her, :idea: make a memory box where you can keep special things that remind you of your Nan

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15 Mar 2007, 9:50 am

Something like what happened to your Nan happened to me.My Mom had twins and 1 of them died almost right when he came out and the other died about 6 months after that.

spike2006
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15 Mar 2007, 2:25 pm

thank you all for your replies im sorry to hear about your loss :cry: :!:

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29 Mar 2007, 8:08 pm

i have had lots of peopledie

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