do you want or have a boy/girlfriend?

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do you want or have a boy/girlfriend?
Yeah, I have/want a boy or girlfriend 27%  27%  [ 68 ]
Yeah, I have/want a boy or girlfriend 31%  31%  [ 77 ]
I dont think so. But I might have one if I find someone with the same interest as me and I like him. / Or it doesnt really matter if I get one 12%  12%  [ 29 ]
I dont think so. But I might have one if I find someone with the same interest as me and I like him. / Or it doesnt really matter if I get one 14%  14%  [ 34 ]
No I dont want/have a boy or girlfriend 7%  7%  [ 18 ]
No I dont want/have a boy or girlfriend 9%  9%  [ 23 ]
Total votes : 249

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14 Sep 2015, 3:12 pm

No, I don't want anyone intruding into my life.


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25 Sep 2015, 10:17 pm

I desperately wanted a girlfriend when I was single. I met my current girlfreind on this forum & we've been living together for 3 years now.


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07 Nov 2015, 2:00 am

I don't wish to have a love mate.


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07 Nov 2015, 8:09 pm

i had one thrust upon me.


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01 Jan 2016, 5:35 pm

this poll uses "have/want" as the same option: that doesn't make sense

I may not have one

But I sure do want one :(


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11 Jan 2016, 1:10 am

I've been all interested in this again, as I really don't understand what a relationship is, and no one explains the standards of one the same way. I have had "relationships" in the past, but never really got the point. I have some dysphoria issues to sort out right now but when that's done with, I might actually be interested in having a girlfriend to show me what this is all about.


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11 Jan 2016, 1:17 am

Kiprobalhato wrote:
i had one thrust upon me.


That's how I meet my only girlfriend back in high school. It was unpleasant and did not end well. Yeah I kind of guess I'd like to meet someone. Maybe it would help solve most of my existential problems anyways or a least make me think less of them, which would make dealing with my practical problems so much easier.



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11 Jan 2016, 1:24 am

I don't need a Hunny, but I wouldn't mind if I found someone with the same interests and all. Waldo would also have to approve.


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11 Jan 2016, 6:06 pm

Yeah, I want one.



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09 May 2018, 7:53 pm

Yes, I want a girlfriend, a beautiful Central Asian or Eastern Asian girlfriend. No, I do not currently have a girlfriend because women on Earth don't want me as their husband. They tend to pre-judge unemployed broke men as "unfit to marry" and they pay no regard to his character or any potential for becoming emotionally attached to him in spite of his "unfitness" as perceived by the woman. They simply don't let it happen. I find it very hard, almost impossible, to believe that love really happens and I find it harder still to believe one will ever allow herself to love me and not judge my ability to make or care for a family all on whether or not I have a job or money.

I know some of you will reply and tell me that I'm just being negative and I shouldn't make that kind of generalization of women. If you think I'm wrong somehow, do me a favor. Give me the physical proof that shows that I am wrong. I don't think you can. :(



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10 May 2018, 2:52 am

^^^ Stephen I'm unemployed & on Social Security Disability & got a girlfriend but she's disabled herself too & likes the fact that I try my very best to be supportive of her


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10 Oct 2018, 7:29 pm

I've been alone all my life. I don't think I could be the attention of someone. That would freak me out. I always wonder what it would be like to have and to hold someone, but I have never experienced that. I guess at 63, I never will. It does make me feel sad at times, but then something catches my attention and those thoughts disappear in a flash!

I don't feel I can be in the spotlight of one person or many. That just doesn't work for me.



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11 Oct 2018, 10:52 am

No, I prefer being single.



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12 May 2019, 12:59 pm

Yes, I want a girlfriend. No, I don't have one, nor have I ever dated before in my 23 years on this planet. I feel a little lonely despite having a few close friends.


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