I am a mechanical engineer/ structural analyst for an aerospace company, evaluating the hardware for performance against loads and operational conditions. It is a field that has a shortage, and many job options.
I am good at figuring out things, often before peers, and am well reviewed. I have a bigger raise than most peers this year, and get thrown into odd situations as I can always figure it out. PEOPLE skills are poor, I can talk with anyone, little fear.. but very superficial and don't know how to have real conversations, and am not "buddies" with folks at work usually.. one here or there but not part of bigger social spectrum.
However, even with this type of job, I do have meetings I have to go to, and my performance in them is often abysmal. I interupt, take over the meeting, and am so intense "I am a force of nature" per my boss. In college I would correct profs, stuff like that. NOT a good thing for work.
So, I am oblivious to appropriate social behavior, and have assembled an army of unique considerate and kind friends that are supportive for the most part.
None of the buds have been informed I have or may have AS, I did take the online tests and won!.., too many characteristics are shared with me for it to be coincidental, and now I dive into this and other website hoping to glean useful coping information and management skills.
I study the hell out of anything from snow tires to shingles to know the optimal solution.
Then make the choice and second guess myself for days.
In my job, the work is interesting, I am ok.. but come having to write report or document or do anything I think of as boring I struggle.
I have adapted so much over the years, hard to tell where I end and the camoflauge begins.
However, overall this has proved to be a lucrative career.. make 105K/yr, lots of jobs, can't live anywhere/everywhere as there has to be a job, but not bad.
I have in the past worked as a project lead, program manager etc. for Research stuff (acoustic non lethal weapons), launch vehicles (rotary rocket) etc. and have lots of invention ideas, book ideas and hardly ever do anything with them.
read a huge amount.
If I had it to do over? Hmm. not sure. Maybe same field but different subspecialty, maybe work for a county job or something.. not as challenging but more controlled and lower expectations, could have kicked back and had a house in the woods in some podunk place?
Or product design, I can always make something better and think a lot of stuff is stupid!
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Tony
Man Myth or Monster!?