Five fields an Aspie should NEVER work in

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I love reading posts here. So many of them look like someone's been studying me and jotting down observations, lol.
I've always told people that my ideal job is the kind of job that would drive an average person nuts from monotony or just prolonged focus requirement, haha, now I understand why.
I could never work in most of those positions. MY biggest 'NO' job, though? Sales. I will never in my life hold another sales job if I can help it.
I actually LOVE short one-on-one positive human interactions. Adore them. I feel like I would really like customer service, because I REALLY like the idea of scripted, framed, purposeful conversation where I know exactly what we're supposed to be talking about, and where I know that I have the power to fix someone's issue and make them happy with me. (I know I respond well if a customer service person is polite and helpful, even though I called angry.)
Sales, though, I've found, requires lying and hurting people. I CAN'T do that! I am not sly enough to lie to someone's face to sell them a product, knowing that I am ripping them off!! NO WAY.
I even got a job selling dog food (dogs are my obsessive topic thing) and couldn't do it. I had a job that REQUIRED ME to bother strangers about dogs, and I couldn't do it!! (Normally this is my dream, lol)

My favorite jobs:
Pizza delivery, ironically- QUICK, scripted, very routine: Take ticket, check foods A, B, C, D. Bag, check out in the system, set the gps, go. Deliver, return, repeat. Lots of alone time, driving. It's stressful, but all work is stressful, so that's a tradeoff. You do have to talk to a lot of customers, but it's ALWAYS happy! No one is angry to see the pizza delivery person!
Small computer repair shop- Very few coworkers, no face to face with customers, very fine detail oriented, lots of self-motivated work, lots of room to immerse yourself in a job and zone out on it.

Going to college for programming, though. Loooooving it!
It boosts my ego SO MUCH to be SO GOOD at something! AND I won't have to talk to people very much! AND programmers are basically expected to be socially awkward, lol.

If "hospitality" encompasses all restaurant work, I'd heartily disagree with that. Aspies make spectacular bakers, sauciers and prep work.

Precision and repetition, noticing fine details such as an exact shade of brown or the subtleties of the balance of flavors in a spice mixture.

Idk about you, but I have attention surplus disorder ... can do one task over and over and over, even if it's in a series of up to 30 steps in the process.

So I have worked sales(I suck at it.).

I agree I end up being a computer tech 99% of my working life.
I can accomplish almost anything with computers, I understand them, I can research them, I dunno.

I think my ideal job would be something based with research, I can spend months or even years on end researching one thing and I will beat it with a stick until I find all of the information I can about it.
Always thought it was weird that I would do that... Guess in reality its normal(for me anyway.).

awesome thread.

Hey guys, don't worry about not being able to be a waiter/waitress, despite it being the quintessential rite-of-passage job for many youth...I remember an episode of Dr. Phil, where he openly admitted that back in his younger days, he was the worst waiter ever and didn't make it through his first month. So people who are very insightful, intelligent, and yes granted Dr. Phil is better with people than most of us but the point is, such people are not diminished by sucking at serving.

I was a spectacular server, but I didn't enjoy it in the long run...kept carrying the stress home with me.

But I made great % tips. Usually around 30%. Why? Because I wasn't sleepwalking, like most servers are. I might not be good with facial expressions, but I'm usually good with tone of voice. So when I ask an honest "how you guys doing today?" (expecting an honest answer), their tone of voice told me how much interaction they wanted to have with me.

Also, I never lied about the menu, as in "Oh, the shrimp? It's great." I would be honest and say "Well, they boil the shrimp in cream and usually it comes out a little overcooked and rubbery. If you like seafood, get the fish and chips. They make the beer batter fresh and it comes out tender and flaky, but not dried up and falling apart."

People actually appreciate honesty in a server. Perhaps because there is a lot of trust involved between customer and servant in the job. And also perhaps because lying and apathy are the expected norm.

Notwithstanding our stereotyped affection for patterns, I think that this is subject that defies patterns. For every job that a "typical" Aspie should avoid, there will be an Aspie who excels at it. For every job in which a "typical" Aspie would thrive, there will be dozens who would hate it.

For my part, self-employment was a disaster (indeed, it was the disaster that led to diagnosis). But I am sure there are others for whom self-employment is the only environment in which they can function well.