namaste wrote:
no use doesnt work out for Aspies
Personally, I'd argue that it's even *more* important for Aspies. IMHO, few things will *directly* improve an Aspie's long-term ability to succeed in NT society more than moderate amounts of pot, alcohol, and the supportive structured friendships associated with greek life on campus. Your degree will get your resume past HR, but knowing how to pretend to be "normal" for an hour or two at a time is what will actually get you *hired*.
In a very real sense, my Big Brother taught me how to pretend to be social. He taught me how to walk normally (swing arms, appropriate gait, proper facial expression, etc), introduced me to A&F, and got me to do the "Fraternity Fridays at the Day Spa" thing (sigh, I miss those... especially the foot massages...) I've regressed a bit since graduation, but I can still put on a good show for an hour or two at a time, even if I do tend to drop the act & "go Aspie" most of the time now.
In other words, college is a complete package, and IMHO it's *urgently* important for Aspies to live on campus. It's basically the only opportunity you're going to get in life to live semi-independently in a group-living environment without the stigma of "being unable to live independently", and be surrounded 24/7 by a buffet of social opportunities in manageable, commitment-free bite-sized pieces that you can take or leave as the mood strikes.
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Your Aspie score: 170 of 200 · Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 34 of 200 · You are very likely an Aspie [ AQ=41, EQ=11, SQ=45, SQ-R=77; FQ=38 ]