The idea that everyone has some obligation to the taxpayer is certainly my choice for worst and most widespread modern social-general myth. Or general idea. There is no moral component to being 'a taxpayer'. It's not a righteous position. The individual has no influence or stake in state spending in reality and no choice in 'paying' tax. It's not really a payment, it's mostly purely formally redirected funds beyond your control anyway.
There is no obligation. You did not opt in to this terrible system. Working life involves suffering. Non working life involves suffering. If someone can keep it together outside of employment, I'm pleased for them. I am totally in favour of people not ruining their lives with work. And I work. Once I finally got into it, it turned into the path of least resistance to go with the routine and drudgery. Well, until now, because I've crashed out of work recently. Maybe permanently, I have no idea.
In the UK, at least, about two thirds of students are not employed in any way during terms. I eventually graduated. Several years late. Without doing any term working, but with work in a gap in study. I got employment based on paper qualifications basically, but it took a while.
I'll pretend that 'my' tax money is being separated from the treasury by magic and used solely for social security for those who can't cope with the work world, psychologically and physically. That's fine by me. Then those who are offended by people being out of work can pretend 'their' tax money is used for everything else .