Do you sit with your co workers during break at work?

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Yes because we have three tables and we only sit at the two of them. The third one is where the fax machine in and the phone and where we sign in and out for work.

This reminded me of something that happened while in grad school. Typically members of my research group would eat our lunches at different times in our collective office (separate room than the laboratory rooms). Unfortunately, that was when our "wonderful" research adviser would seek us out to ask questions about our research or upcoming presentations or even general chemistry knowledge questions. Many times, we did not get time to finish eating our lunches because he constantly was quizzing during our break times before we had to get back to work. He did it out of plain enjoyment of making us squirm under his power. So, I started a bad habit of disappearing out of the building for lunch at a random time each day. There were no departmental rules that said we had to eat there or be there at specific times, just that we got our work done on time (which I did). Being that I was spending 12 to 16+ hours a day (6 or 7 days a week) in the lab, I felt that I needed some time to recollect my thoughts while eating my food. That is why I still eat alone if I can.

When I have a job where I'm not the only one on break, then I do spend time with co-workers. With my last job, when I had a break, I was the only one at the time taking time off, so I sat alone. I was laid off from that job, and it's been difficult trying to find a new job. Now my state has started hiring again, and now they have a new program that I got involved with to help people with disabilities get state jobs. I actually have an interview on Thursday, my first one in several months. Previous ones failed to get me hired, so while I'm going to this interview, I'm not going to get my hopes up.

For me it depends. Sometimes I sit with them, but at my job, usually most of the employees eat at roughly the same time. We're 10-15 people in a small room, people are eating and talking and especially when there are smells on top of all those noises it gets too much for me. Much better to finish my lunch quickly then go back to the office and enjoy the nice and quiet. Most of us are nerds anyways, so nobody says anything about it.

It really depends. I really do not like to unless I trust that person on a level I can't say for most people. I would sooner spend my entire lunch break in the bathroom or outside walking around if I cannot tolerate my co-workers or don't have the same level of trust.

I enjoy to lunch and to drink coffee with my colleagues because I am extraverted enough. There are three short breaks a day because I work at a school. I work for 100 minutes and my breaks are about 20 minutes. After 14:20 I work 130 minutes, then I go home.

If I am really busy with my work, it sometimes happens that I skip a break and continue working.

In my job before last I didn't get the opportunity to have time by myself at all (or even a proper lunch break) and meltdowns were occurring in abundance. Then in my last job I got a half hour lunch break but meltdowns were still as bad and frequent as I had to sit in a fairly small room with several other staff. Eventually I had no choice but to take myself of to my car for half an hour to have any chance of making it through the day. Eventually my job just proved too unsuitable and not coping with a relationship I became quite unwell.
Now I'm at uni, I just take myself off on my own somewhere quiet. I tried to stay with people in my group for lunch in the first week but it was just too much. I do worry a bit what others might think about me but I have to do what is most conducive to my well being, so I try to do it regardless.

I have to have "alone time", as well, or I also get meltdowns. I get thought of as "distant", etc., as a consequence - but I've also discovered that most of the people who write me off for this have already would also write me off as "weird" anyway, so...