Stripping and Autism

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That's an amazing story @vickygleitz! Wish I knew you in real life...I want to hang out with celebrities so bad!

This is true.
It is because the ovulating female releases pheromones while in this state.
The males brains pick up this scent and they biologically want to mate.
They pay extra because they are attempting to move the situation closer to copulation and they sub-consciously know she is fertile.
Isn't biology KEWL!! !!

I always knew you were COOL and now I know why

I'm new to the forum and this was the first post that I saw, I felt the need to throw in my $0.02!

I'm a newly diagnosed Aspie who danced for 8 years, as a gogo dancer and in strip clubs. I was always very different but that worked in my favor, and observing people long enough allowed me to BS my way through having to talk to random guys I didn't care about talking to every night. What I settled for eventually was asking them a few questions (whats your name, where are you from, what do you do, what are your hobbies), then going on about myself at length when they asked me about myself... I can talk about me forever I hate touching people or being touched (except by my SO) so for dances I would always just drop my butt on them or put my chest in their face for a second before moving again. It's hard to deal with the rejection, but you can think of it like a game! Ask as many people as you can, until someone agrees to it.

If you need inspiration I suggest watching burlesque videos on youtube. If you're not naturally inclined as a dancer, it's easy to learn from those, and men love burlesque-style strippers. Think Marilyn Monroe, Bettie Page, Dita Von Teese. If you're bad at doing your own hair, you can look into purchasing a decent cheap wig so you don't have to worry about that, once you have the funds.

Always be careful though, in my experience most clubs are involved with some sort of illegal activity. The biggest, nicest club that I ever worked in was in Ft. Lauderdale FL, with a full 5-star restaurant and aerialists who danced over the stage, over 300 girls working... the last place you'd ever think would be doing anything illegal. When the bouncer gave me a tour & showed me the VIP booths, with doors, I was concerned for my own safety. I asked him if the rooms had cameras, but he misconstrued the reason for my question and said "No, just don't PROMISE some dude a blowjob and get all upset when he expects a f****** blowjob. If you decide you don't want to give them one, just give them their money back. I don't want any problems." I left that club with $80 for 8 hours, $20 of which were from an old guy who pitied me when he saw me standing around (traumatized, determined not to go in the VIP) & said I didn't belong there. Other girls were paying the house $300 to leave there after being there only 2 hours because they made so much in the "champagne room".

A better bet for you might be cocktail waitressing in a strip club or similar type bar, or gogo dancing. Gogo is easy, not as much money but you don't have to talk to anyone, and it's a GREAT workout. That was always my favorite.

Good luck! I hope you make all the monies.

Well,

Great posts. I would probably not consider stripping, but I've had similar questions with teaching, waitressing, and the other "socially-oriented" jobs I've had. I would LOVE to be the center-of-attention cheerleader socialite, but I'm an average-looking woman with a social impairment. I feel this everywhere I go. I thought for a while that it was just my looks, but it's my whole ability to present myself, and it's made worse by this strange inability I have to communicate. I wish I could find an accountability partner or a club dedicated to self-improvement for aspies. Sometimes I sit around and do nothing but daydream about how great it would be if I could act like a "normal" person, if I could understand the jokes, get in on the gossip, date someone with confidence. Asperger's is a wonderful blessing and a profound curse.

how does one teach or waitstaff without social skills?

That doesn't sound very different from so many male entitled comments complaining that even unattractive women, who allegedly shouldn't be able to "afford" it, reject them. It's also no less insulting. I am disgusting, fat and just plain ugly. Why should I spend hard-earned money (I won't get paid for dancing and slowly taking off my clothes, you know, and I doubt anyone would pay to have sex with me) for the miserable purpose of watching a show I don't enjoy, performed by a woman too young for me to date and who thinks so low of me, in addition to giving her yet another reason to persist in that attitude?

Feel free to think I'm a hypocrite, but no, I don't enjoy at all seeing something that only tells me, "Ha, ha, you crave this, you would die for a second of loving intimacy with a divine creature like me, but you can't have it, ha, ha, you can't have it, you're such a despicable loser, you can't have it, ha, ha!"

Well then come in Canada Its full of stripper clubs here, especially in province of Québec

I currently teach adult internationals, so social nuances aren't that big of a deal. I went to school, though, to teach high school, and that's when my lack of social understanding really reared its ugly head. Three years later, and I'm still working as a substitute teacher for high school. The kids are awful to me. I'm assuming it has something to do with my lack of social skills. I can't think on my toes as easily as some people. If student A is misbehaving with student B, I'm sometimes supposed to punish student C, because he / she started all of it! Managing kids is very confusing.

Before I started college, I had a job as a waitress. I felt cheap and dirty at times because of how men treated me. The ones who wanted to flirt were mean to me when I didn't perform, but that was just part of the problem. I couldn't keep up with the demands of the job, either. I would often get orders wrong, and I dumped food on a customer, accidentally. I also unintentionally insulted a few of the younger guests. Not being able to read social signals very well can make life suck sometimes. I was really friendly and outgoing, but my disorder made me more comfortable acting like a robot.

^^^
I'm sorry you had to go through that. sounds like my experience even though I'm a guy.