byrlawson wrote:
Space wrote:
byrlawson wrote:
Many people would tell that software engineering is great for an aspie.
Confirmed. It is. Really.
Everyone says that Engineering is great for people with AS. Too bad some of us are bad at math and sciences.
I am not making fun of you: I am glad not all people (and aspies) are the same.
Btw, this might be interesting: I never had the impression I would be especially good at maths or science. I have had a bit of this experience in elementary school but I had concentration issues and was talking to myself. I certainly had to stop that. I began to relate most of my problems, socially and those with teachers, with things I could do better than others. My teachers always cared much more for social issues and physical education than any of my personal abilities.
That continued all the time in school. When I started university I chose to study law because I somehow thought that would make a break with my past in school that was full of misery.
I had to cancel studying law, most because I had massive problems studying in the informal environment of a big university. I changed to study computer sciences because of the job market situation. My problems did go on. I had counselling and realized there was a kind of a barrier to do some things, especially those elementary to computer sciences.
It was found this barrier was indeed self imposed. I partially managed to cope with that and if some preconditions would be met I usually did very well with most lectures and exams. It took some time and I would have had quit university if I would have had to care for financial or substaining issues. I always had support from my parents. They never questioned my personal way to to things.
Today I work at a research center for articial intelligence and many people in my environment encourage my to got for a PhD.
Because of my personal experience, and know it is perhaps not applicable to others, I would like to recommend any aspie to double check for those kinds of problems that I have mentioned above.