Barbary wrote:
I think a lot of customer service jobs where you have to deal with people and take a lot of complaints from customers may not be a good fit for an Aspie.
You're right. Working in an environment where I've got to deal with people all day would stress me out big time, because I am not wired to work as a customer service advisor at all. I've got practice by doing plenty of work experiences and voluntary work in retail environments and I've now come to realise that I haven't gotten any better at it, in fact it's made me feel even more unconfident with the public to the point where I want to jump on to something new that is more suitable for me and requires less social interaction with the public. And anyway, employers aren't going to want to take on a socially phobic Aspie to work with the public when I'm in compitition with about 10 NTs going for the job who have got naturally good social skills. It'd be like somebody with permanent back problems expecting to get a job doing lots of heavy lifting, where they could have more chance getting a job which requires more sitting rather than doing physical work.
For once I have learned that people tend to want to use me to haggle, because they know I am a kind-looking mug who will let customers get away with murder, simply because I already have trouble with the word ''no''.
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