I work with kids on the spectrum right now. I've also worked with adults on the spectrum, who are very severe cases, mostly nonverbal. I've found it much easier to understand the adults, even though many children I've worked with were less severe than the adults. Nevertheless, I often did find that I had more effective approaches to working with people on the spectrum than my co-workers. However, there are some variations among the way they think, so I can understand certain people better than others, but it's certainly easier than working with NTs. I don't think I could handle doing that for such a long period of time: it would be very exhausting. I remember having to tutor two kids all by myself at a local elementary school, and it made me very exhausted, indeed.
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Leading a double life and loving it (but exhausted).
Likely ADHD instead of what I've been diagnosed with before.