I'm a lab technician at a university. While I like my job and my boss as I get on with him, I am deeply unhappy at the moment. This is for two main reasons:
1. I may be about to lose it due the recession caused by idiots who don't know how to manage their money i.e. cannot add or subtract, so I'd like to say a big thank you to those responsible for the economic downturn, I have already lost one fantastic and utterly perfect job as a result and now I could be made to lose this one too.
2. I work largely by myself and, while this is sometimes a good thing, I have actually suffered terribly social wise. I am often busy and so don't get much of an opportunity to say hello to my other employees. They all go for lunch together or go for drinks after work, something of which I am never included in. Whenever I have seen anyone, I am nice, open and make the effort (but not too much as I know this could appear a bit full-on), but that still doesn't seem to work when it comes to people wanting to socialise with me. It's almost as though people talk to me to amuse me rather than because they like me, or perhaps they do like to talk to me but just aren't that bothered enough to want me to socialise with them. I haven't felt this socially excluded since I was at school. It's making me really depressed. I have been in this post for nearly six months now and, in all that time, excluding staff functions, I have only been to lunch with someone once and that was this Wednesday just gone with one of the students who I have recently become friends with and have been for an after work drink twice with my boss. This is why I refer to my last job as being 'fantastic and utterly perfect' as I had the correct balance of me time and social time and my former colleagues always included me in things the vast majority of the time, unlike my current post.