Twitch wrote:
Furthermore, asperger's doesn't 'doom' you to having no social life. It may change what that means versus what it means for other people. I have a handful of friends, I spend time with them, we talk and play board games and such. To me, that's a social life. I agree that in some places it is more difficult to find that than in others, I used to live in an area where I never made a friend, this was for about a decade and a half. Where I live now if you are socially awkward and interested in 'strange' things chances are there is someone who is also awkward and shares your interests.
Also, it must be stated that not all aspies are introverted and certainly most are not completely reclusive. I find it funny that on a forum like this that people are so prone to stereotyping because of all people we should be aware of the real experience.
You are totally right about many things, seriously some AS people can actually get along with others, do things on a very timely manner and become wizards at their jobs. You just need to learn how to figure out how to achieve all of your goals in a timely manner and know how to do things efficiently in a timely manner. These are just the simple tricks of the trade, this is just simply my opinion.