Bubbles137 wrote:
. . . never had a 'proper' interview before . . .
Generally, you just want to give bland, plain-vanilla answers.
'Yes, I realize it's going to take a lot of work, and I'm willing to do the work. And in fact, I'm kind of looking forward to it.'
That kind of thing.
Even if the interviewer is personable and engaging and discloses something about their life, you only want to medium disclose (important). You're not lying or hiding. You're simply disclosing a medium amount appropriate for a first meeting.
NOTE: I struggle with this all. I realize the above advice may sound as though I'm advocating being phoney. More I'm thinking, simply allow it to be what it is, which is usually superficial, sometimes it is medium. At times, if I don't have much going on in my life on the social front, I can find myself really looking forward to these kinds of events, and hope the person will become a friend. And that is just way unrealistic. The person is usually an HR person (or in the case of an university, an admissions person) and won't even be involved in the day-to-day. I'll remember it, because it's an intense interaction for me. However, for the person, it's just routine. If I see them again and expressively say hi, he or she will probably say hi back, but they probably won't really remember me.