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Meow1971
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04 Jun 2011, 11:50 pm

(posted to my blog and wanted to share here too) Blog Entry if you want it

ASD folk, those with Aspergers or Autism, often find that they can handle casual conversations well enough. However, when the pressure is on our control can slip away and we crawl back within ourselves. There are not many situations more pressure packed than when employment is on the line. So what to do? Here are some tips for calming yourself and making the situation smoother than you might fear.

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Write out answers to anticipated questions, easy and hard, before hand.

Practice the interview. If you can do it with someone you trust great but even sitting with a mirror (you do not have to make eye contact; just as long as you get the general idea of someone across from you) and going over the questions you know and the ones that you think may give you difficulty. Have the answers there with you.

For phone interviews practice having a conversation with a couple of different phones ahead of time.

Stand up during your phone interviews; it expands the diaphragm giving you better air flow and can help with confidence

For an in-person interview take a look at the building in person and/or via Google Maps & Google Earth before the day of the interview. It will help you feel more comfortable with the location.

If you do visit in person see if you can talk with the receptionist or a security guard. This too will help you feel more comfortable on the day of the interview and potentially give you a friendly face that will greet you on the big day.

Lay out your clothes ahead of time or perhaps even try them on to see if there will be anything distracting you.

Prepare a calming action that you can surreptitiously do during the interview. A couple of days before the interview start programming your mind by thinking of the best success you have had at work or the best memory you can think of. While doing that rub your thumb lightly on the side of your index finger on your off hand. This will prime your brain to think of that as a calming/empowering gesture. During the interview do the same action, especially if you start to feel anxious.

Bring notes into the interview; notes like projects you worked on, skills that you have or reminders on how to handle the interview. You may think it unprofessional but forgetting something important or feeling unprepared will hurt you anyway; what do you have to lose? Some people have even commended me on my preparation.

Bring a notepad to take notes during the interview. It can give you a moment to calm yourself by writing down (or pretending to) and again, will help you feel more confident. Be sure to write the names of the people you meet with.


While not foolproof these steps can help make the rough interview smoother and help you make a great impression.



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05 Jun 2011, 2:02 am

I've had more job interviews than i care to think of, and gotten at least a few good jobs in my days, so I'll reiterate some of the advice i've given before.

In my line of work i find that a lot of interviews i go on are the result of a 3rd party headhunter calling me out of the blue. From this i have learned that it pays to spend some time researching the company you are interviewing with. Find out what they do, and figure out how your experience and skills apply to the work they do. You never want to show up having no clue what they do there.

Do not volunteer to discuss your spectrum disorder. Stating this only because people have asked over and over if they should bring it up. Don't. Just don't. Nothing positive can come from it at this juncture. Employers are aware that not everyone is exactly the same, and equally aware that sometimes someone with an unusual personality is uniquely qualified to do an exceptional job for them. They've been through this before. You are not the weirdest person they've interviewed. Don't bring it up.

If for some reason they bring it up or you blurt it out, stress the positives of your spectrum disorder. Like attention to detail.

Every employer, on some level, whether conscious or subconscious, wants to hire someone who they feel will be easy and pleasant to work with.

Put a positive spin on everything you say. Express enthusiasm for the opportunity to work with them. If you think you can do a good job for them, say so. If you want the job they are hiring for, ask for it. Straight up ask for the job. Can't hurt, and might be the thing that pushes you over the top.

Ask questions. You need to express an interest in what they do. Once you know what they do there, think about what questions you can ask about how they do business and how they run the department you'll be working with.

Ask about their history and outlook.

If you take some time to ask them a lot of questions about the company, this will give them the impression that you have other options and want to carefully consider what company you will commit to. That may be total BS - maybe you just need any job you can get your grubby paws on - but you need them to think that you need to know whether they are up to your standards, but without appearing to be aloof or cocky about it.

Do not brag. It will make you look like a jackass.

Ask the interviewer what the best aspect of working for the company is. You'd be surprised how well this works.

On a more job specific level, if you are interviewing in the software industry and they tell you that they don't work late nights and weekends, that means that they work a completely unreasonable number of late nights and weekends. This has been true of every software company i have ever worked with. The ones who say they don't do it are the worst offenders by far.