Never had a job, no references at all Advice?

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Tarin
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06 Jan 2012, 11:59 am

I have been trying to get a job since I graduated college in May 2009. The problem is I have never had a job. In addition, I 'm not good a at developing relationships. I have no friends. Every job seems to ask for non family references. I am trying to get volunteer opportunities: however, these places are requiring at least 2 or more references. How can one get a job or volunteer opportunity if they have no references.



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06 Jan 2012, 12:07 pm

Tarin wrote:
I have been trying to get a job since I graduated college in May 2009. The problem is I have never had a job. In addition, I 'm not good a at developing relationships. I have no friends. Every job seems to ask for non family references. I am trying to get volunteer opportunities: however, these places are requiring at least 2 or more references. How can one get a job or volunteer opportunity if they have no references.


Tarin, how about some of your college professors? Another possibility would be some of your parents' friends--people who likely understand your situation, and will sympathize.

As an employer myself, I can tell you that most of the time references aren't checked. Former employers in particular are reluctant to give out any information in the absence of written permission from that employee. It opens them up to law suits.



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06 Jan 2012, 12:08 pm

Ask your professors if they'd be willing to be a reference for you; send them a nice, polite professional e-mail; "My name is John Doe. I was a student in your class during the spring semester of 2010. I really enjoyed your class a great deal. I have recently graduated with a degree in ___________ and am trying to enter the job market. Would you mind serving as a reference for me as most companies appreciate references from professors who can test to the applicant's diligence, study habits, and work ethic? I would really appreciate this as I feel that your good word will increase my chances of entering this competitive job market.

Sincerely,

John Doe



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06 Jan 2012, 12:27 pm

A way around this that might work; explain during this time you were self-employed but you decided to enter the job market because you didn't like the uncertainty of an un-steady paycheck.



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06 Jan 2012, 8:45 pm

Professors make good references, contact them and i am sure they are willing to give you a recommendation.

Good article on how to get references: [LINK]



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14 Jan 2012, 7:01 pm

First things first, write your CV down with your Work Experiences, that can at least help you that you have some work history.

If not, your school failed you as you should of had it.



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16 Jan 2012, 4:48 pm

college teachers is probably the best bet. is there a relative with a different surname who could pretend to be unrelated?

Related Q- Is it ok to put 'references available upon request' on CVs??
i've seen it done before but not sure whether it looks a little shifty