Tarin wrote:
I have been trying to get a job since I graduated college in May 2009. The problem is I have never had a job. In addition, I 'm not good a at developing relationships. I have no friends. Every job seems to ask for non family references. I am trying to get volunteer opportunities: however, these places are requiring at least 2 or more references. How can one get a job or volunteer opportunity if they have no references.
Tarin, how about some of your college professors? Another possibility would be some of your parents' friends--people who likely understand your situation, and will sympathize.
As an employer myself, I can tell you that most of the time references aren't checked. Former employers in particular are reluctant to give out any information in the absence of written permission from that employee. It opens them up to law suits.