I saw this thread earlier but didn't have the time to post. I meant to say that "if she's so preoccupied with greetings, maybe she should open her mouth first then, because you'd return it right?"
then I saw this now:
kouzoku wrote:
She doesn't say hi to ME when I come into work. She is ALWAYS at her desk before me and doesn't look up to say hi. She never did. It's not like something she stopped doing because I didn't respond. If someone says hi to me, I always respond. I'm not rude. But she never once did the very thing she wants me to do. Hypocrite!
She sounds like nothing but a drama queen and a hypocrite to me. Maybe she was PO'd for something unrelated to you and was spoiling for a fight?
If I had been in that situation, I would have asked why
she didn't say it if it was so important to her.
I might not actually have done this but I would have been very tempted to put on a show about how it stresses me out to walk past her every day when she just ignores me! Maybe I'd even throw in a comment about how her wearing headphones made me feel she tuning me out.
Sure it wouldn't cost me much to say hi, but I would have wanted an explanation on her part first, because if I'm being "hostile" by not greeting, what is she then, who actually cares about such things and still never say anything?
I never greet anyone, unless they do first.
Just wondering, kouzoku... You said in your first post that you work on a lot of projects together. What's she like then?