not sure what you read that makes you doubt the wisdom of staying in your situation, but in today's economy especially, if you have a secure job and you don't hate it, and you have nice bennies and a nice situation where you don't even have to be there always to make it effectively full-time - you might regret leaving. good jobs are hard to find, and most employers want to milk you dry. do you have a burning desire to do something else?
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161 Aspie / 51 NT - Aspie Quiz (very likely an aspie)
36 - AS Quotient
115 aloof, 123 rigid, 89 prag - Aut/BAP
24 - HSP / ADD Quiz- 41, Inattention: 24, Hyperactive/Impulsive: 17
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