Told about treatment and lost job

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19 May 2014, 11:15 am

i lost my job after i admitted i am taking treatment for stress
i told them i suffer from anxiety and need to take medicines
to control depression and anxiety

I was really foolish


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19 May 2014, 12:06 pm

:(

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19 May 2014, 2:22 pm

What can you do to get the job back?

Are you a member of a trade union? Can they help you?

Do you have family or friends to support you?



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19 May 2014, 4:05 pm

I don't know what to say. I just want to send you a hug.



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20 May 2014, 12:35 am

ok wrote:
What can you do to get the job back?

Are you a member of a trade union? Can they help you?

Do you have family or friends to support you?

no scope they would just humiliate me if i continue there
i dont want to go back


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20 May 2014, 2:06 am

namaste wrote:
ok wrote:
What can you do to get the job back?

Are you a member of a trade union? Can they help you?

Do you have family or friends to support you?

no scope they would just humiliate me if i continue there
i dont want to go back


I understand.

I hope you have some family or friends to support you.

If you are a member of a trade union, you can tell them about how you got fired. They can help you get a new job.

Other than that, talk to family and friends about it.

Good luck and keep writing about it, if you need any help.



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20 May 2014, 2:10 am

ok wrote:

I understand.

I hope you have some family or friends to support you.

If you are a member of a trade union, you can tell them about how you got fired. They can help you get a new job.

Other than that, talk to family and friends about it.

Good luck and keep writing about it, if you need any help.

ya you are right talking to family and friends helps

about trade union i spoke to the HR manager and
he is in no capacity to do something about this infact the entire management conspires to target
a individual they dont want around

its hard to forget but im dealing with it


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20 May 2014, 4:22 am

Hi

I've been bullied out of a workplace before now (they found a loophole to get me fired) and I think sometimes, as you say, it is easier to try and pick yourself up and move on rather than to fight it.

I'm lucky, in the UK it's now illegal to discriminate so as long as I'm open and honest they can't do anything (I'm also on meds for depression and anxiety). Doesn't stop me getting really worried sometimes, but it does make me feel a bit safer.

I hope everything works out for you. Sending lots of hugs.


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20 May 2014, 1:08 pm

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I've been bullied out of a workplace before now (they found a loophole to get me fired) and I think sometimes, as you say, it is easier to try and pick yourself up and move on rather than to fight it.

I'm lucky, in the UK it's now illegal to discriminate so as long as I'm open and honest they can't do anything (I'm also on meds for depression and anxiety). Doesn't stop me getting really worried sometimes, but it does make me feel a bit safer.

I hope everything works out for you. Sending lots of hugs.

sorry to hear that
good UK has some laws
i cant face workplace scenario and bullying again in my lifetime
it was too much


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20 May 2014, 3:33 pm

Sorry you lost yor job. I've been through such time in my life, too. It was an emotionally draining and exhausting period. I think it worths trying to find a better job despite the difficulties, it can pay off on the long run. Just be patient and don't rush yourself (or let anyone to do so).


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29 May 2014, 10:12 am

Can you get a lawyer involved?



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29 May 2014, 10:44 am

namaste wrote:
i lost my job after i admitted i am taking treatment for stress
i told them i suffer from anxiety and need to take medicines
to control depression and anxiety

I was really foolish


Is this a new job or the last one you posted about previously?

Hugs and well-wishes.



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29 May 2014, 1:57 pm

its the same job mentioned earlier

dont want to get lawyer involved
not interested in working there anymore
lot of negativity
plus work is saturating


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