Chimaera,
In a way I can relate to your issue in that I too have worked in Graphic Design and Advertising.
Upon reading your post about doing the best artwork possible, I am left with the impression that your client doesn't have any concept about the impact the design of her web page will have both on your work as well as whatever message she is trying to communicate to her own clientelle.
If I was dealing with a client such as what you describe, I too would find myself questioning her attitude and her intentions in whatever she is trying to communicate to the public about the type of business she is trying to operate. I too would be the first to tell her that bold blurbs would be contradictory to the nature of such a business.
A business of that nature that your client is operating is especially no place for bold, screaming blurbs all over the page -at least not in such an area of business as massage therapy. It would be altogether different if, for example, she was selling used cars or if she was a politician running for election.
It seems to me that part about wanting a photo about herself and her personal info could be relegated to an "about us" link on the same page.
Kudos to you for showing her your concern from the perspective of a consultant in regards to putting her web page together. If even the most tactful and convincing ways fail to sway her into something that is truer to the nature of her business, then I too would consider declining the contract if it will be deleterious both to my reputation as a web page designer as well as attracting prospective clientelle.
For some people, there is no pleasing God or the Devil and that is the feeling I have about your client.
Whatever the outcome, best of luck.
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