I've spent a semester in a Western European country and I'm currently spending one in another one, as an exchange student. I'm not from the US but maybe I could be of use. Ask away if you want to know specific things. (Of course, the fact that I'm an exchange student means my place is still waiting for me when I go home! I don't know if I dared leave if it meant having to look for a new job, though I don't know about your job prospects.)
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I don't think anyone could "land in jail" in Western/Northern Europe with outbursts unless they physically attacked passers-by. And even still (I haven't attacked people myself here, so I can't tell, but I did have public meltdowns, though not on the scale I used to have in my home country - but I think even if you attacked people, you would be taken to an acute mental ward and not jail. Which might be worse, I dunno!) Especially not in Northern Europe. Overall I found that people here treat me much better than in my native country (a developing country), and I think my behavior is mentally filed under "Weird Unpredictable Foreigner" and not "Totally Insane Person" as it seemed to be the case when I lived at home. Sometimes people are condescending - not in Northern Europe though, they make huge efforts to be PC, you might actually find it annoying -, but since you're from a developed country they probably won't be condescending to you. (They might make remarks at Bush and US foreign policy, though.)
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Autistic. Jewish. Female. NOT: A person with autism, Judaism and femaleness.
The Game of Life? Heck it's a cellular automaton.