I built up a team of people within the University of individuals who are in the know about Aspergers Syndrome. I had lots and lots of hours with a really good academic advisor in the Disability Services Office. Every state sponsored University has one. I have a good relationship with my Academic Advisor/Accomodation Coordinator as well as anAcademic Tutor and my Undergraduate Advisors to include my professors as well. But it does not end there. I also have people in the know about my disability at my job, although they do not understand how it works. Understanding how it works is my job.
You basically have to direct them as to the nature of your disability and what you will need from them. My accommodation coordinator has currently 9 or 10 others with Asperger Syndrome and he has guided one to be a store manager at a grocery while she sells exotic birds for thousands of dollars.
My method was I built up a team of people whose job it is is to guide an individual to success that are in the know. I did most of the work, they advised me where to take the steps and how to walk. If that makes any sense to you. I wish I had more time to go into detail, I really do but right now I have studying to do.