How do you search for a job with no career direction

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HenryGramer
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27 Mar 2017, 4:53 pm

Hello all,

I have probably posted on here so many times about job woes and BS and you all are probably tired of me posting this and not making a "change". Anyway, how are you supposed to look for a job and then stick with it when you don't even know where to start. Also, how do you know what accomodations you need for this issue of mine? People apparently do not believe I have it or they don't know how to help me out. I can't even help myself.


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27 Mar 2017, 9:12 pm

If you really have absolutely no desire for a career but still need to work to live, then maybe try picking the most convenient thing to start with. Look for jobs close to your house, that happen in the hours you prefer to be awake, that don't depend on your weak areas as an Aspie (like smiling and being friendly, or talking on the telephone, or being organized and tidy, or whatever you find personally challenging.) Read the job listings on Craigslist or Indeed.com, and apply to everything that sounds do-able. After you've had a job for a little while you'll know more about what you like to do, and you'll have experience on your resume to apply for your next job.



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28 Mar 2017, 2:54 am

arielhawksquill wrote:
If you really have absolutely no desire for a career but still need to work to live, then maybe try picking the most convenient thing to start with. Look for jobs close to your house, that happen in the hours you prefer to be awake, that don't depend on your weak areas as an Aspie (like smiling and being friendly, or talking on the telephone, or being organized and tidy, or whatever you find personally challenging.) Read the job listings on Craigslist or Indeed.com, and apply to everything that sounds do-able. After you've had a job for a little while you'll know more about what you like to do, and you'll have experience on your resume to apply for your next job.


It's not that I have no desire for a career but it's hard for me to hold down a job as well as stay interested. All I am thinking about right now is any job that has 40 hours that I can hold down for years down the road, it will be my "career". I'm asking this because my sister and brother-in-law are constantly pushing me and I'm frantically looking for answers as well as a solid job that I can keep. I'm lost and need help learning what my weaknesses are. I need like serious disability vocational help and they don't understand, which is normal and expected.


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Says I'm Aspie...

Please don't type of paragraphs in response to my questions or replies because that will overwhelm my mind and make me not want to read your responses.


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28 Mar 2017, 10:30 am

If you are diagnosed vocational rehab might be covered by insurance or government programs. Maybe you should seek that out. However, no program can make you "interested" in your job. People don't work primarily because they are interested in their jobs all the time, but because they are interested in survival.



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28 Mar 2017, 12:59 pm

arielhawksquill wrote:
If you are diagnosed vocational rehab might be covered by insurance or government programs. Maybe you should seek that out. However, no program can make you "interested" in your job. People don't work primarily because they are interested in their jobs all the time, but because they are interested in survival.


You are right about people working as a means of survival. I recently went through vocational rehab and they closed my case because of how persistent I was in getting my s**t together leading them to saying "I did not comply". I guess it's not about being interested in the job but just making good money and sticking to a job. Of course I do love music and DJing as well as production but given that I just started and there tends to be no direction... Now I just need to stick to a job.


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I'm finally coming to terms with the Aspergers identity but am now needing help with how to navigate it.

ND score: 131/200
NT score: 58/200

Says I'm Aspie...

Please don't type of paragraphs in response to my questions or replies because that will overwhelm my mind and make me not want to read your responses.