Anyone working as High School teacher?

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I become a high school teacher and would like to know if there are other teachers here...
How do you deal with social difficulties?

no teachers here....???

this job can be really stressfull... but there are some cons...
first of all I want to bust the myth of bullies being the hardest part... dealing with bullies is a PITA but
for me the most stresfull part is "keeping myself socially acceptable" while doing my job. and this consumes
a lot of energy to the point that i can get burned out very easily....
Also being constantly aware of what happens around me is another thing that consumes a lot of energy....
I have some problems with short memory, I can't remember my student names very well and overall I find the constant social interactions quite stressfull

I was a high school teacher many years ago. I found that it was okay because the classroom is not a casual social environment. There is a strict protocol and strict rules and as the teacher I was not socializing with the students but following lesson plans and the interactions were dictated by me and not them. Yes, there are people who disrupt and interrupt but the challenge is to keep everyone focused so that those are quickly dispatched with the same stock phrases that don't need to be improvised on the spot but are go-tos. The challenge is learning effective classroom management to keep troublemakers in their place. I don't mean to imply that I was a particularly strict teacher, but that I stayed focused and tried to keep the students focused on what needed to be accomplished during class time. The hardest classes to deal with were study hall and homeroom because there wasn't a task to be worked on.

I worked as what is probably described as a 'high school teacher' (11-18 year old pupils) for 20 years. I was a complete disaster for the first two or three years, making almost every mistake in the book with my classes, and quite a few with my work colleagues. Then I somehow pulled myself together and managed to do a very good job between about 1984-95. Then for various reasons, which I won't go into here, I lost it in the later 1990s and experienced what was probably some kind of 'autistic burnout' which made the whole situation intolerable. I quit in 2000 and never worked again after that.

I think that maybe twenty years in this sort of job is more than enough for anyone, whether they're on the spectrum or not.