annie2 wrote:
I know that speech delay is often a part of AS. Does any one else have a child that seems to talk with their tongue in the way a lot of the time - almost slightly lispy? Sometimes I wonder if his tongue is too big for his mouth.
Annie -- that was exactly what I thought. My son (now 22) went through much speech therapy - in school and private - with some good outcome. He did fine in speech class, but didn't usually carry it over to everyday life and other classes.
He also has "mild non-progressive DX'd cerebral palsy" (it affects him somewhat, but will never get worse - or better). I think that his speech is affected by the CP, but haven't asked a professional. The CP is most noticeable in fine motor skills (he doesn't do cursive writing.) His printing is OK, but would be considered 'sloppy' by others. He has no trouble walking, but I don't think he could run for any length of time. (Again the CP.)
At 22, he can be understood by everyone and from teenage years has had a good sense of humor and connects easily with adults. Around his parents, he seems withdrawn and somewhat incommunicative. Most questions to him are answered with one word answers. But at other times, he'll carry on a more normal conversation.
Other adults (non-parents) say he is outgoing and funny and contributes meaningfully to conversations.
He was slow at most of his milestones as a baby including walking and talking. (I don't have his baby book and don't recall the times.)
He was 5 weeks premature. Any co-morbidity with premature birth and ASD? Mother had gestational diabetes.
This Forum, to which I am very new, has really been helpful to me as a parent and I have been thinking back to my son's progress over the years. I think he has progressived quite a bit. His ADD (no "H") has gotten better. He has hyper-focused on different subjects, but those chosen subjects have 'matured' over the years from Disney to Ninja Turtles to Video Games to Rock Music to the Internet. He is a good writer and a great reader -- on his subject matters.