what would you do? bad OT and ST

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Totally uncalled for.

sound like a horrible parent. you've given up on your child and he's not even an adult yet. you know why your son acts the way he does? because you're an idiot. someone should take YOU away for child abuse.

This is her comment on another thread - if your going to give it then you'd better be prepared to take it.

Everyone does things differently and it doesn't give someone the right to go around acting holier than thou.

1loneranger did you just set up this acct because malya2006 ticked you off? Thats just sad and if you are who you apear to be form the other thread your not much of an adult.

I'm happy to hear your son is doing better malya. I know it's hard when you have do deal with someone that is a rough on your child. As for the potty training thing there have been resent studies that suject that boy my not be complety ready until they are five and these are NT kids. Just keep pluging away and if you need any help with that I'm be happy to try. I've potty trained 4 boys <two being my much younger bothers> one of whom is a mostly nonverbal autisic. Because we are all here to help each other and our childern.

Thank you CRD for your support and understanding. As of now my son is completely potty trained, it was not due to myself, it was due to him being mentally ready. His body was ready but he was not convinced that he needed or wanted to be potty-trained. When he mentally figured out that it is easier and cleaner to eliminate in the bathroom as opposed to his pull-ups, he did it all on his own. Which proves my point to 1loneranger that pushing a kid does nothing but promote resentment and hatred. By the way, my son and daughter KNOWS I am the boss of the house. Of course, he tries to do things his way, at the end of the day he and I know that I am in charge. I let him explain why he thinks he should do things his way, then I explain why we have to do things a different way, he buys in (or not) and then we do it MY way. Trust me when I say I do promote self-sufficiency and being a law-abiding citizen. I will NOT let my son hurt himself or others. I have no problem with the OT/ST pushing my son to his limits. There is nothing I want more than to have my son be a happy independent adult. However, I will not push him until he breaks, I will not degrade him when he can't do it, and I will not criticize him for being different. It's funny how you compare kids to a dog. LMAO! Shows what kind of person you are. Believe me I am a very strong person, I have to be strong to raise my son. Your kids may listen to you now because they are scared of you, but when they are on their own they will be lost. I have no problems "being put in my place." LOL you have done nothing of that sort. I find your post ludicrous. I honestly didn't like the way the parent talked about her child and was upset. I have every right to be. I did apologize for calling names, that was uncalled for. However, I still feel bad for her son. By the way, my post about pulling ants legs when I was FIVE years old was my way of telling that parent not to worry about her child. Children are curious and do not realize what they are doing at times. It's funny that you said pulling ants legs at FIVE years old indicate psychopathic behaviors LMAO. You clearly are trying to use anything against me to try to "hurt" or "offend" me even if it makes no sense. Nice try

For the record I'm not 1loneranger and I didn't set up another account. I'm quite capable of replying for myself which I did on my own thread.

Malya I'm am very happy for you that you have managed to toilet train your son at such a young age. I didn't know my son was autistic until he was 8 and being a very young parent I trusted family day care to guide me which didn't help because they started him too early in my opinion.

Thank you tudorose. I sincerely apologize for anything I said in the past. I hope you can accept my apologies.

no probs Malya