menameslaura wrote:
I appreciate that, DW, but as a parent who has always been "Leary" of meds, I sometimes wonder if my choice to try the meds on our son was the right thing to do.
We had to try something .... For his benefit, but inside, I for some reason feel so guilty.
Are we doing the right thing ?
That I can't answer. My son isn't on medication. Every hurdle, every time others would have pushed us to do it, we found "one more thing" to try, environmentally or intervention wise, and pulled through without it. My son is "just" AS, no ADD, and that changes things. My daughter is probably ADD (no "H" and most likely not AS) and we're working with her on alternative strategies, similar to what my sister developed for herself, in the days before kids were diagnosed ADD. I've met kids that I would say need something more; my daughter isn't one of them. She's getting through school and learning; for her, the opportunity to develop her own natural strategies seems like a better investment than worrying about any educational aspects she isn't taking maximum advantage of. So ... I don't know what your journey's been and how many strategies you've tried and how close to the edge life for your child is without the extra help. I would assume that if you have reached this point, it is because you had no choice. If you aren't sure about that, and this is more what the doctors suggested than what you, as a parent, feel is the only choice - then reconsider. I think the important thing is for you to feel you've tried everything you know how to try, plus a few, and really see no other way to keep from going over the cliff. As parents, we'll all do whatever it takes to keep our kids from going over the cliff.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).