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10 Nov 2010, 10:21 pm

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I think the kid on that show is just a spoiled brat. Yes, Aspergers is tough, but it doesn't mean you get a free pass through every aspect of life that's even remotely difficult.

I've yet to see the show and that is why I was confused... why would a man taking too long cause a meltdown? I could see if he were overwhelmed by the people in line but from a direct cause of someone taking too long makes no sense to me...


I haven't seen the ad or the episode yet (I never watch the show when it's on, which is weird because every other show I watch, I watch live).

But I think it's ridiculous how the parents just give the kid whatever he wants, no matter how absurd. I'm not saying people with AS shouldn't get some accommodations, but this kid needs to realize life isn't a bed of roses, and you don't always get what you want. And I think the kid is more autistic than AS.


I think they make the mistake of promising him things to accomplish a simple task, but I'm not sure I agree that he asks for things that are absurd. I think he's a little more impacted than someone with AS too, so I agree with you there.

It's a portrait of a "typical" American family (the Hollywood version of course) and how they're coping with his "AS". If you notice, none of the kids on the show seem to want for much. They make a lot of exceptions for him because they aren't confident in what to do. The story goes that he was just a weird kid until he was 8 I think, and then he was diagnosed and they started working on adjusting him and adjusting to him.

I remember seeing a news story about a family who had I think a 13 or 14 year old child with autism (not sure which flavor) and they still threw ridiculous tantrums to get what they wanted because the family never corrected the behavior and it escalated. Old habits die hard.



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30 Nov 2010, 10:42 pm

SadAspy wrote:
I think the kid on that show is just a spoiled brat. Yes, Aspergers is tough, but it doesn't mean you get a free pass through every aspect of life that's even remotely difficult.


They have actually had an episode about the fact that they are too permssive. The episode where the behavioral aid started working with him, she told them that they were being too permissive. The mom admitted she didn't know what to do and just gave in to prevent meltdowns, and the behavioral aid helped to show her that he COULD be worked with. This season has been about him starting to make some progress with that.



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01 Dec 2010, 5:05 am

i have had a small problem with max since i started watching the show but i can't quite put my finger on what seems "off"about him... i think it relates to the way he speaks. he speaks fast and through people's heads, as he should, but it feels odd. as in: entering a house already in talking mode. i don't know exactly, because in this show, they ALL seem to speak this way, as if they were improvising somehow, talking over each other. they are a confusing bunch as far as conversation is concerned, hard to follow what they are talking about....



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02 Dec 2010, 4:06 am

My boy would have been more upset with the grammar in "20 items or less" ... (but it should be FEWER Dad!) ...Brings it up every time - and not very quietly.



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02 Dec 2010, 6:43 am

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My boy would have been more upset with the grammar in "20 items or less" ... (but it should be FEWER Dad!) ...Brings it up every time - and not very quietly.


lol! I really hate that, too, actually. And so, my children know well that it's incorrect and often comment. Don't get them started on misplaced apostrophes or misspellings!



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03 Dec 2010, 1:45 am

Max is such a brat!


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