SadAspy wrote:
buryuntime wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
I think the kid on that show is just a spoiled brat. Yes, Aspergers is tough, but it doesn't mean you get a free pass through every aspect of life that's even remotely difficult.
I've yet to see the show and that is why I was confused... why would a man taking too long cause a meltdown? I could see if he were overwhelmed by the people in line but from a direct cause of someone taking too long makes no sense to me...
I haven't seen the ad or the episode yet (I never watch the show when it's on, which is weird because every other show I watch, I watch live).
But I think it's ridiculous how the parents just give the kid whatever he wants, no matter how absurd. I'm not saying people with AS shouldn't get some accommodations, but this kid needs to realize life isn't a bed of roses, and you don't always get what you want. And I think the kid is more autistic than AS.
I think they make the mistake of promising him things to accomplish a simple task, but I'm not sure I agree that he asks for things that are absurd. I think he's a little more impacted than someone with AS too, so I agree with you there.
It's a portrait of a "typical" American family (the Hollywood version of course) and how they're coping with his "AS". If you notice, none of the kids on the show seem to want for much. They make a lot of exceptions for him because they aren't confident in what to do. The story goes that he was just a weird kid until he was 8 I think, and then he was diagnosed and they started working on adjusting him and adjusting to him.
I remember seeing a news story about a family who had I think a 13 or 14 year old child with autism (not sure which flavor) and they still threw ridiculous tantrums to get what they wanted because the family never corrected the behavior and it escalated. Old habits die hard.