jellybeansmama wrote:
We've been getting OT and speech along with an EI teacher while waiting on an official diagnosis and I have wondered that myself. He's come a long way but so many things happened way later than they should have and he still has a lot of behaviors. Things like meltdowns have improved not because my son has really learned to cope and not have one but because my husband and I have learned strategies to help him.
Exactly, we have been waiting 18 months to get referred to the right place. Yesterday we had our first appointment with the right people who will be able to diagnose and the woman we saw asked my background in autism..... I dont have one! Im just a frustrated Mum, Ive had to work it out myself and come up with possibilities of a dx in order to get to the right Dr, the system is a mess. I did not intend to self diagnose let alone start working on the problems before a dx but its what Ive had to do :/ We have a lot less melt downs and behaviour problems now, but anxiety and stimming is still through the roof so thats what we are working on now. Hopefully they will still recognise the signs and go on what we have said.