The problem is that by logic and reason we understand logic and reason, not, "because I say so" and "my house or my money, my rules and I refuse to reason with you". If you mean the latter, say the latter and don't pretend to be reasonable. It took me more than two decades and loads of horrible arguments to get it, that could have been saved by being upfront.
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The red lake has been forgotten. A dust devil stuns you long enough to shroud forever those last shards of wisdom. The breeze rocking this forlorn wasteland whispers in your ears, “Não resta mais que uma sombra”.