Well if he has any artistic tallent, an art school would be a great place to go.
Most art colleges are crammed full of those who dont fit in and have a very accepting attitude of what makes us unique. And, they generally shun fraternities and such.
I learned to accept who I am in art school. The best majors to go into right now is computer art, illustration, and graphic design....most everything else will not get your son a job.
Computer art takes only a minimal amount of artistic skill, and some computer know how to get great results
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All art is a kind of confession, more or less oblique. All artists, if they are to survive, are forced, at last, to tell the whole story; to vomit the anguish up.
-James Baldwin