gramirez wrote:
I heard that men over age 40 who have kids are more likely to have kids with mental illness (broad). My mother was 38 when she had me, and my dad was 44.
NOT TRUE! The theory is that a females ova are created with her, mature, and are released over time. So exposure accumulates. A males sperm are created ALL THE TIME, and can degrade over a shorter period, etc... Of course, after a point, they are less viable so they are less likely to make a woman pregnant, and then they are reabsorbed.
ALSO, a womans ova can be very bad and still produce a child but, if there are relatively minor problems with a man, he may be sterile.
anyway, some women over 30 start having a lot of problems, and some men over 70 have had healthy kids.
That said, my mother was about 31, and my father was about 29 when I was born. I believe I have AS. I DEFINITELY have a number of symptoms that are RARE among NTs, but relatively common around people with an ASD. I also had a large vocabulary before most people even learn to talk. My social skills, and coordination(with regard to sports) stink though.