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22 Mar 2015, 6:24 pm

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Hi,

My 5yo daughter was only diagnosed with autism a month ago. One of the assessment tools used was the ADOS and that's what confirmed the autism. The pediatrician said that her play was abnormal and she didn't show much imagination in the play.

So I was wondering (seeing as I'm still learning all about ASD) does lack of imaginary play in autistic children = lack of imagination in general?

My daughter does seem to have an imagination, but a rather quirky one. For example, she'll pick up random objects and say that they look like something else. For example, she once picked up a really long french fry and said it looked like "Rapunzel". Today she had a piece of pyramid-shaped jello and she said it looked like "trousers", then she looked at it from another angle and said it looked like "an ice cream cone". I thought it was pretty cool that she was able to visualise other things from these objects.

Also, when she's stimming, she tends to race all over the room yelling and making different sound effects. It sounds like she's actually imagining scenarios like a game of chasey or a sport. Or she'll make up a scenario, like pretending that she and a bunch of classmates are running away from a monster.

So how come she's not imaginary when it comes to toys but she shows vivid imagination in other ways? Is that typical with kids on the spectrum?


I think you answered the question itself. She clearly doesn't lack imagination, or even imaginative play, she just doesn't demonstrate imagination the way they'd expect her to. I was similar as child, I had no need to express imagination not because I was unimaginative, but because I could do it all in my head. I actually did have social imaginative play though, I discussed with my brother a rich imaginary world, though the play was entirely cerebral.


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29 Mar 2015, 12:13 pm

Aspies don't lack imagination. If anything, they're better at it than NT's. Heck, I myself used to come up with extremely detailed imaginary worlds, with the details down to the patterns on lampshades. Almost always, my imagination games were solitary. The one I remember best consisted of me pacing around a playground gazebo at my preschool, and talking to myself about what my "house" looked like. The solitary aspect was magnified by my descriptions (to myself, no less) of multiple locks on doors, unbreakable windows, guard dogs around the perimeter, and a dry moat full of thorny plants. this changed when I got older and somewhat better at socializing (only to massively regress after starting school), and other kids at preschool started asking me to "help them build their boat/plane/spaceship", because word got around that I was good at coming up with stuff. Basically, creative imagination.

What they do lack in imagination in two things: social interaction and suspension of disbelief. Namely, delegating roles of captain/midshipman/sailor when pretending to be pirates, and playing one's role accordingly. I could never master the unwritten social rules that each role required. Also pretending to eat ping-pong balls or Play-Doh, and calling them "muffins". Each time I saw that, I'd think: "I knew other kids weren't as smart as me, but this just takes the cake!" And imagine my shock when my preschool teacher tried that. I could forgive fellow 4-year-olds for "mistaking" Play-Doh for food and even continue enjoying their company, but a full-grown woman entrusted to care for me? It knocked my trust of her down a few notches ever since, although I somehow knew better than to verbalize it to her.



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29 Mar 2015, 1:05 pm

Aspie1, your post reminded me of my daughter when she was younger. She has a fantastic imagination. Truly something to marvel at. But she didn't engage in "imaginative play" like feeding dolls, etc. I remember when she was around 3 or so, her therapist was trying to get her to give her doll a "drink" by putting an empty cup up to her lips. She did it once, and her therapist responded so enthusiastically that my daughter started walking around the room and putting the empty cup up to everything...her stuffed bear, the dump truck, the couch, the tv set. LOL! I had imagined her inner voice saying "Wow, is this lady easy to please. Who knew all I had to do to get all this attention was to put this cylinder next to stuff! Piece of cake!"

She never played with dolls or barbies. She always wanted to manipulate things or draw or line stuff up. But I have no doubt in my mind that her imagination is among the most active possible. She wants to be an author and illustrator when she grows up. If she continues with that goal, I think she will do quite well. As it stands, she has "invented" hundreds of her own Pokemon, each with their own powers and personalities. She has also developed and expanded upon her own "regions" and my son said that a lot of her stuff is better than the actual Pokemon stuff available. She has also created her own "offshoot" creature-type worlds. The stories she writes are imaginative, humorous, and show strong cohesiveness for her age.

IOW, at least MY autistic kid has an imagination, even though she never did engage in "imaginative play," except to appease others and with a clear lack of understanding of the representative nature of what she was doing.


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30 Mar 2015, 4:45 pm

InThisTogether wrote:
Aspie1, your post reminded me of my daughter when she was younger. She has a fantastic imagination. Truly something to marvel at. But she didn't engage in "imaginative play" like feeding dolls, etc. ... I had imagined her inner voice saying "Wow, is this lady easy to please. Who knew all I had to do to get all this attention was to put this cylinder next to stuff! Piece of cake!"

Yup, that was me. I didn't feed my stuffed animals, either, due to lacking the imagination to do so. Despite being willing to kill or die to protect them, I still knew they were just toys. I compensated by having a story for them: they go out and hunt for food while I'm away from home. (Most of my animals were dogs; hence, "hunt".) I was terrified of losing or damaging them, or having bullies grab them away from me, so I never took them outside. Even for a show and tell in kindergarten, I brought a $1 flashlight, and passed it off as my favorite toy.

But I digress. When I was 10, my family moved across the country. I had a horrible time adjusting, so my parents had me see a psychologist. I honestly thought the lady was an idiot. She had me do things like mime planting a tree, push a car around a table to "go to grandma's house", role play an airline passenger scene (in reference to my move), and so on. I walked out of her office feeling five years younger; her being at least 40 only added to my confusion. I told my parents what happened, and it was my first and last appointment with her.



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02 Apr 2015, 12:01 pm

Like others, I had an imagination but it wasn't a very social one. When I did play with others I only wanted to play a set role over and over or control the playing of other kids.

I would often line things up or pace but in my head was a whole world of things. I think the thoughts I had were atypical - such as Aspie1 describing having imagined the lamp shade covers. I thought of things others might not have, but I definitely had something going on in my head.

I'm pretty bad at creating scenarios overall, though, especially as I've aged. I'm terrible at story writing.



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16 Apr 2015, 6:38 pm

Okay. So basically when I was diagnosed at seven years old, my parents and teachers, were told that I "lacked imagination". I'm still angry about that today. Presumably, professionals had seen how I "played" in a confined and stressful environment without privacy, a therapist's office, and jumped to the conclusion that it meant that I lacked imagination. This was not true. At school I would play imagination-based games with friends. At home I would imagine complex scenarios with toys and paper aeroplanes. Had I been given sharp graphite pencils instead of broken, brightly-coloured ones, I would probably have drawn something creative. I had not. They had drawn conclusions from how their neurotypical minds perceived my play, in one narrow and unpleasant environment, which I believe was very unprofessional. I firmly believe that neurotypicals should not be the only ones to make judgements on these matters.

Lastly, I would like to show you this article written by Gavin Bollard, on his blog, Life with Aspergers, on his imaginative play, which was similar to mine.
http://life-with-aspergers.blogspot.co. ... ngage.html



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16 Apr 2015, 7:26 pm

My son, I would say, is very imaginative but they also said that he did not engage in "typical" imaginative play when he did the ADOS. Apparently, he had three objects and one was some sort of pretend doctor's needle, and one was a fire helmet. He made up some scenario where he said that the needle walked into a fire house (which was the helmet) and said: "Oops, I meant to go to the doctor." So, they said that since he didn't pretend the needle was something other than a needle, that he wasn't able to use an object to represent something else (or something). But, he makes up all sorts of stories at home, draws comics, makes legos into things and makes up stories about them. Most of the imaginary play he does is based off of cartoon characters or game characters, but I do not think he lacks any imagination. It just does not present itself in a "typical" fashion. He also makes up a lot of "What if" jokes.



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19 Apr 2015, 3:52 pm

I also feel my son is very imaginative, but he did poorly on that part of the ADOS. The ADOS has very specific criteria for what defines "typical" imaginative play, so by that standard, he was not typical. He also runs around like crazy, making sound effects and moving his hands around. He calls it "playing." He's 13. He came up with a secret language when the kids were little, and his NT siblings followed suit. I agree with others that it's an "atypical" type of imagination, but that doesn't mean it's not there. My son has a very vivid and rich imagination.



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19 Apr 2015, 7:19 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
Aspies don't lack imagination. If anything, they're better at it than NT's. Heck, I myself used to come up with extremely detailed imaginary worlds, with the details down to the patterns on lampshades. Almost always, my imagination games were solitary. The one I remember best consisted of me pacing around a playground gazebo at my preschool, and talking to myself about what my "house" looked like. The solitary aspect was magnified by my descriptions (to myself, no less) of multiple locks on doors, unbreakable windows, guard dogs around the perimeter, and a dry moat full of thorny plants. this changed when I got older and somewhat better at socializing (only to massively regress after starting school), and other kids at preschool started asking me to "help them build their boat/plane/spaceship", because word got around that I was good at coming up with stuff. Basically, creative imagination.

What they do lack in imagination in two things: social interaction and suspension of disbelief. Namely, delegating roles of captain/midshipman/sailor when pretending to be pirates, and playing one's role accordingly. I could never master the unwritten social rules that each role required. Also pretending to eat ping-pong balls or Play-Doh, and calling them "muffins". Each time I saw that, I'd think: "I knew other kids weren't as smart as me, but this just takes the cake!" And imagine my shock when my preschool teacher tried that. I could forgive fellow 4-year-olds for "mistaking" Play-Doh for food and even continue enjoying their company, but a full-grown woman entrusted to care for me? It knocked my trust of her down a few notches ever since, although I somehow knew better than to verbalize it to her.


You have pretty much described my 5.5yr old son. He spends the bulk of his day acting out his world's and talking to himself out loud doing it. I'd say 50% of the time its his own world and the other half he's completely reenacting tv shows or complete video game levels from skylanders in specific detail. He also never understands playground rules when assigned a role like a shark who isn't a loud to climb the pirate ship, or a captain. Cool post, thanks for sharing.



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19 Apr 2015, 7:29 pm

Pretty much all of my "imagination" is combining and modifying scenarios that already exist :/



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19 Apr 2015, 7:53 pm

It seems to me these days if a kid has a vivid imagination that must mean they have schizophrenia or they're dangerous and psychotic, which is sad. If a kid called a French fry Rapunzel most adults would correct them. "No, it's a French fry and you're supposed to eat it." They can't seem to tell when a kid is just pretending.

I was told I had a good imagination when I was a kid. Maybe because I loved to draw cartoons and didn't just copy off of TV or comic books like other kids. I used to love taking small dolls or tiny plastic figurines outdoors and then our back yard would become a forest or a pond would be the ocean. It's too bad it's not socially acceptable for an adult in public to take her Mario and Luigi figures and pretend they're jumping over the mushroom-shaped kiddie tables or have them whizz down the slides at the playground. Maybe if there's no one else around and I can hide them in my purse. :)

When I was a kid I used to camp with my parents a lot in the summer, and I'd notice how the campfire flames looked like orange people and that the sticks they were burning also looked like people. I was so fascinated by this I started drawing pictures of flame-people trying to burn the poor stick-people. It looked pretty cool but I'm sure these days they'd slap me with a pyromaniac label and wonder why I didn't burn my house down years ago. It's not like I ever played with real fire, I knew it wasn't safe. :( I was more into water, anyway. :)

Also I would save the old notebooks and textbook I had at the end of the school year and pretend to play school with my dolls, only I called it "dollygarden". I had both good and bad students and the bad ones would end up being punished for being bullies and such. It was all harmless fun, and I'm glad I have such pleasant childhood memories. It was when I became a teen and was supposed to give all that up that the really bad memories started...



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19 Apr 2015, 8:23 pm

When I was a kid I used to play with legos and always make the same scenario, wich usually ended by a huge duel and the bad guy winning and cutting the good guy's head off. :twisted:



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21 Apr 2015, 11:40 am

Kids naturally like to imagine like they are flying,role paying as super heroes etc.It is quite natural,if he does it fun way..



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22 Apr 2015, 12:34 am

I never did social pretend play when I was a kid, and I am quite spontaneously imaginative, it is obvious to eberryone in person.


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22 Apr 2015, 7:48 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
Aspies don't lack imagination. If anything, they're better at it than NT's. Heck, I myself used to come up with extremely detailed imaginary worlds, with the details down to the patterns on lampshades. Almost always, my imagination games were solitary. The one I remember best consisted of me pacing around a playground gazebo at my preschool, and talking to myself about what my "house" looked like. The solitary aspect was magnified by my descriptions (to myself, no less) of multiple locks on doors, unbreakable windows, guard dogs around the perimeter, and a dry moat full of thorny plants. this changed when I got older and somewhat better at socializing (only to massively regress after starting school), and other kids at preschool started asking me to "help them build their boat/plane/spaceship", because word got around that I was good at coming up with stuff. Basically, creative imagination.

What they do lack in imagination in two things: social interaction and suspension of disbelief. Namely, delegating roles of captain/midshipman/sailor when pretending to be pirates, and playing one's role accordingly. I could never master the unwritten social rules that each role required. Also pretending to eat ping-pong balls or Play-Doh, and calling them "muffins". Each time I saw that, I'd think: "I knew other kids weren't as smart as me, but this just takes the cake!" And imagine my shock when my preschool teacher tried that. I could forgive fellow 4-year-olds for "mistaking" Play-Doh for food and even continue enjoying their company, but a full-grown woman entrusted to care for me? It knocked my trust of her down a few notches ever since, although I somehow knew better than to verbalize it to her.


This is it exactly. We do great with imagination on our own terms and terrible with imagination on someone else's terms. So if a Psycho-educational evaluator wants to come in and control the imaginative play, he or she is going to be sorely disappointed and may decide that the child has no imagination. (And they say WE don't have theory of mind! Ha!)