MY SON IS 18 YR.OLD NOW AND I WISH THAT I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE CORRECT DIAGNOSIS FOR MY SON GROWING UP. HE WAS DIAGNOSED ONLY WITH ADHD. I HAD NO KNOWLEDGE OF ASPERGERS. HE HAS ENDURED SO MUCH PAIN, STRUGGLE, BULLYING, AND I'M SAD TO SAY DEVELOPED A VERY LOW (IF NON EXISTENT AT TIMES) SELF ESTEEM. HE HAS BEEN SEEING A COUNSELOR, AND A PSYCHIATRIST FOR A LONG TIME. ASPERGERS HAS ONLY BEEN A RECENT DISCOVERY FOR US. I ALWAYS KNEW THAT HE HAD TO HAVE MORE THAN SIMPLY ADHD, SINCE MEDICATION, AND YEARS OF COUNSELING DIDN'T HELP HIM WITH HIS BIGGEST ISSUES: SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE, ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, ODD BEHAVIOR (THAT HE FOR THE MOST PART DID NOT GROW OUT OF), ETC. I ONLY HOPE TO FIND HIM THE HELP HE NEEDS, AND PRAY THAT IT ISN'T TOO LATE TO BEGIN REPAIRING SOME OF THE HURT THAT HE EXPERIENCED. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN COMFORTING TO KNOW WHAT IT WAS THAT WAS MAKING IT SO HARD FOR HIM ALL ALONG. EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT WON'T HELP TO FEEL GUILTY (I DO). I SIMPLY HAD NO IDEA. THE PROFESSIONALS THAT I TOOK HIM TO DIDN'T HAVE A CLUE EITHER. [quote] “If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.”