Help! 8 yr old girl with AS symptoms?

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I just got her psych eval back...FSIQ 139.

Awesome!

They actual do sed her behavior chart so she can read it. I got the documentation because they mailed it to her neurologist without a release form.

You didn't really mention anything that would indicate AS or refute it. You should ask the neurologist why he thinks she has AS. Perhaps the neurologist recognizes certain traints.

To answer your question, a person with AS can be extroverted. AS doesn't really have anything to do with being introverted or extroverted.

Introverted people with AS are quite and minimize their presence in social situations. They usually don't share their interests with others.

Extroverted people with AS tend to be loud, can be obnoxious, and generally are good at making fools of themselves because they are socially inept.

Both can still meet the DSM-IV diagnostic criteria.

When I was a child I was one of those loud obnoxious types that Chronos mentioned. My Mother tells me that when ever we moved (we moved over 25 times when I was a child) I would go knocking on peoples doors and asking if they had children to play with. However there were a lot of things I did that was inappropriate like opening peoples refrigerators and taking food or walking in the house without knocking or ringing the bell....my mother tried to teach me manners but I just didnt get it. People would say things like "make yourself at home" and I would take that literally. I was also very blunt and would hurt my friends feelings. None of these things were explained to me because no one knew I had Autism so I was just punished or my friends would not play with me. I got to the point where I started playing on my own because even though I wanted to have friends and from the outside it looked like I was a social child, the anger, bullying and teasing drove me into myself. I now only want people around me that really know me and understand me. I am afraid of other people because I dont understand them. I have learned a lot, the hard way, and since my diagnosis a few years ago but I am very happy being a hermit. Out in the world I have a lot of stress and anxiety attacks. People kept asking my parents if it was hard for me to leave the US and move to France....it was not and Im happy to be isolated with my husband and my two younger kids (I have three adult kids in the US). Anyway the moral of my story is that maybe your daughter might appear to be social and yes she is smart (I was too...I found during my eval that I have an above average IQ) but she may not understand how other people work and this can cause a lot of problems later on. Its better to find out now and then she can get the proper assistance and be able to use that big IQ and artistic talent of hers for great things .

Her neurologist actually wanted me to kinda read up on things and see what I think. I'll give you a few examples. As a small child, she never liked toys that made noise and could not stand the sound of balloons popping. She never really played "with" other children (in the same room--yes, but with---no). She started reading at the age of 3, she also learned to get online that same year. I can remember when she was two, she would put toys in patterns such as blue, blue, pink, blue, blue pink... She tantrums. The tantrums have became fewer and fewer since she has been on Vyvanse for ADHD, but she still has them and it seems to me that they generally happen when she is frustrated, but does not know how to express it. She is in second grade and this is the first year she has a recipricated friendship. In preschool and Kindergarten she NEVER talked about her classmates by name even though in kindergarten she knew their names, and could read and spell them. She could not (until recently) stand the feel of socks or undies.

Thanks for getting me back on topic...I'm very bad about that.

I HATE balloons.....she obviously has sensory issues and it sounds like social issues as well.

Thank you

Personally, I think too many kids are misdiagnosed with ADHD. It is a more social acceptable label. Your first post made me think that maybe your daughter did not have Asperger's but when you add in some of the other things she sounds more Aspie to me. I have also heard that they have pasted some Autistic like symptoms into the ADHD diagnosis, even my psychiatrist who dx me told me about these new additions. In my opinion this is mainly due to the fact that an Autism diagnosis carries a much higher bill for education than an ADHD dx does.
Sorry, but I have a niece who obviously has Asperger's but is diagnosed with ADHD and her parents like this because it is more acceptable. Autism is a scary word to most people especially to the public school system ($$$$$$$$$).....just my two cents .

Thank you...you see my dilema.

@CassandraD: You may also be interested to seek advice here: http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/list/370/parenting-the-gifted-child/