I want to thank everyone that has contributed to this post. I shared the ideas with my husband and he's softened on the homeschooling issue. In fact, the social worker called this morning and suggested that my son might just be a good candidate for homeschooling the more she gets to know him, so we are having a meeting this week to look at options. I feel like such a burden has been lifted, especially with DH on board. I'll let you know how it goes!