His interrupting me is really getting to me

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aann
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11 Jan 2013, 4:19 pm

momsparky wrote:
ASDMommyASDKid wrote:
You could also try converting oral communication to written communication and pass notes back and forth if it is an issue with listening and/or verbal expression.


Yup, I was thinking bulleted lists as I read this. DS doesn't stim, but we find he processes information better (helps with both the visual thing and also his difficulty with sequencing.)


I tried to simply point to the pages of instruction on writing a story critique. The instructions were clear. He didn't follow them. He retold the story, rather than follow the format of a critique. It's not that he couldn't. Once I read out loud the instructions, he did a very nice job. He hated doing it over, though.

So giving him verbal instruction gives one problem - the interrupting - and not giving verbal instruction means he'll miss the instruction. Grrrrr.



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11 Jan 2013, 5:06 pm

Can you ask him to read the instructions out loud to you? Would he be able to do that?



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11 Jan 2013, 5:09 pm

Will try that for next week's paper. Tx.



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11 Jan 2013, 6:27 pm

A critique is harder than a summary. Asking someone to critique something is like asking a big open ended question. He may have been hoping to get away with a summary but when you persisted and made him read the instructions he knew you were going to make him do a critique and he finally complied.

My son's not capable of doing a critique yet without me spoon-feeding specific questions. Otherwise I would get one big "I don't know." Even though your son can do it, he may not want to because it can be much more taxing on an aspie brain to have to come up with the components of what make up a critique.

Just a thought...