If she doesn't start sleeping through the night....

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Have you thought of making or buying her a weighted blanket? Since using ours my 5yo daughter has stopped thrashing about and bruising her legs, shouting out, messing about for an hour before falling asleep etc. It really soothes her and helps her stay still. Before that she would worry about how she couldnt get to sleep which made it worse.

I used to just crawl into bed with my kids during those phases. They can't help what they can't help, they will eventually phase shift out of it, and you need your sleep. So, whatever works.

Some families here have done melatonin with some success. Go to the lowest dosage you can buy and then break that aprt to get to 1 mg.

I would just note that some people are EXTREMELY sensitive to melatonin. We tried it with my son at a 1 mg sublingual dose. It got him to sleep for sure but seemed to leave him quite irritable the next day, which I found out afterward is a common side-effect. Not sure what's worse, lack of sleep or dealing with an extra grumpy autistic 5 yo. Also it did not seem to help him STAY asleep. He still woke in the middle of the night and crawled into our bed. I have given up on that front. I put him down in his bed and sit with him until he falls asleep and when he comes to our bed in the middle of the night I let him be as long as he lays down and goes back to sleep, which he does most of the time. If he's wiggly, I send him back to his bed.

There are lots of ideas for indoor exercise/sensory diet when you can't get outside:
Have her move heavy objects, like stacks of books or small weights or toys. You can even stack those items on a blanket and have her pull it across the floor or fill a pillowcase with toys/stuffed animals and have her pack it around the house. One of the best things we had when DS was smaller was a "magic-tunnel". It was about 3 yards of that stretchy tube knit fabric you can find at the fabric store. No sewing involved. The kid crawls in one end and out the other or she can crawl in and you can take a hold of both ends and swing her around.

Another sensory diet thing that seemed to help DS when he was younger (he is almost 7 now) is the Wilbarger Brushing protocol. Google it and you'll find several sites which describe it and some youtube videos. I found that giving DS as much sensory input and exercise as he needs helps calm him at night.

I had not until you mentioned it.. I sew well. I have industrial sewing machines.. I can do that! I think I will make it out of super soft fabric and she loves to rub anything soft.

I have no idea how to " weight' it though.. I will search online for ideas.

Thank you!