RE: Kids w/ Classic Autism, PDD-NOS & Speech Delays

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29 Jun 2011, 5:36 am

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I haven't heard my son speak in 2.5 years. I'm sure he will one day, I must be an optimist. :D

Better for your son to be an optimist



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29 Jun 2011, 5:51 am

Hes doing pretty well with his PECS. If he had speech it would be annoying because he would be saying 'chips' 'popcorn' 'biscuit' 'drink' constantly :lol:
He verbalises lots. I think he just gave up talking for some years, I can't imagine why he would not ever talk. Thats not the same as saying he will talk, but I still think he will, he's learning new skills and learning to enjoy people.



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29 Jun 2011, 6:48 am

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Hes doing pretty well with his PECS. If he had speech it would be annoying because he would be saying 'chips' 'popcorn' 'biscuit' 'drink' constantly :lol:
He verbalises lots. I think he just gave up talking for some years, I can't imagine why he would not ever talk. Thats not the same as saying he will talk, but I still think he will, he's learning new skills and learning to enjoy people.


I think that's the critical thing - enjoying the company of people. I figure that as the incentive to make friends becomes more attractive my daughter will start using initiating discussion and telling us what she did etc...



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29 Jun 2011, 7:12 am

Some kids with autism have selective mutism, also, a psychiatric condition where anxiety prevents the person from speaking, particularly in social situations--school, daycare, etc. Sometimes the child will speak to only a couple of relatives. Sometimes (like my son) the child will have speech delays/cognitive issues and selective mutism. (Selective mutism is more common in kids with speech issues). It can even continue on into adulthood or evolving into Social Anxiety Disorder.

I had selective mutism as a child and was sent to the school counselor several times for not talking in first grade. However, my mother swears that I talked at home.

From what I have read, Prozac is 76% effective in treating selective mutism. It worked on my son! It made him very hyperactive for the first couple of weeks and we had to adjust the dose several times. However, he started trying to speak all of the time! (It generally wasn't correct speech--lots of echolalia, weak vocabulary, and inability to ask and answer questions--but it was easier to observe his speech difficulties and figure out what to work on).


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29 Jun 2011, 7:46 am

I dont think nostromo's son has selective mutism, Im pretty sure, correct me if Im wrong, that he has late developing or "regressive" autism and is non verbal. This is where the child seems to progress normally then starts to loose skills and becomes profoundly or severely autistic. However many of these kids can regain some of the lost "skills" and can learn to speak or at least communicate even if it is with electronic devices. When my daughter was non verbal she babbled and made lots of noise and she picked up the PECS cards very quickly. She talks now (just turned 6) but only started speaking in sentences at age 4. We recently had a scare though where her speech was slipping and she was hardly speaking at all. We found the reason for her intense stress and once that was resolves she came back to us...so I guess that could have become a selective mutism state had we not investigated and corrected.



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29 Jun 2011, 8:12 am

Just throwing the selective mutism idea out there for people who don't know about it and that a drug therapy--Prozac--has been scientifically researched and proven to work. Selective mutism is a psychiatric thing, so it can get worse or crop up when a child changes schools, starts daycare, or something happens that causes the child stress.

I have also heard of children appearing to regress due to sedation caused by too strong of a medication or changing from a good therapy program to one that is not so good.

Not to say that these are factors in this particular case, but a variety of people are reading the posts, and they may have something just a little different going on with their kids.


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29 Jun 2011, 4:38 pm

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I dont think nostromo's son has selective mutism, Im pretty sure, correct me if Im wrong, that he has late developing or "regressive" autism and is non verbal. This is where the child seems to progress normally then starts to loose skills and becomes profoundly or severely autistic. However many of these kids can regain some of the lost "skills" and can learn to speak or at least communicate even if it is with electronic devices. When my daughter was non verbal she babbled and made lots of noise and she picked up the PECS cards very quickly. She talks now (just turned 6) but only started speaking in sentences at age 4. We recently had a scare though where her speech was slipping and she was hardly speaking at all. We found the reason for her intense stress and once that was resolves she came back to us...so I guess that could have become a selective mutism state had we not investigated and corrected.

Yeah thats exactly right regarding my son. In truth he was always Autistic, its just the symptoms got markedly stronger around 3 years old.
In fact he's part of a university study, they have given us an itouch or iphone thing in a holder with a speaker, he's learning to push symbols for 1 of 3 items, a pink wafer, a biscuit or some Connex to play with. When he does this we give him the item, but also it verbalises the request, e.g. he pushes the button for pink wafer and it says "I would like a pink wafer" and we give it to him. I'm not sure of that would help his language development, or quite what the studies aim is (my wife is dealing with that), but he's certainly getting it. However his language is non-existant now, and at 2.5 he certainly had around 50-60 words and used them.



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29 Jun 2011, 6:03 pm

These posts brought back a memory of when my son's speech started slipping when he was about 18 months old. I had a job working out of the house that got busy all of a sudden at the same time that I became executrix of my grandfather's estate (quite a messy business). I got too busy and too tired to work with my son as much as I had been, and the limited speech that he had started slipping away over the course of a month.

I ultimately decided to quit the job in order to get my son back on track.


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29 Jun 2011, 9:53 pm

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I ultimately decided to quit the job in order to get my son back on track.


You are not alone. Many of us have had to sacrifice jobs. I had an amusing conversation with a girl working at a cash register in a shopping mall. She assumed I was studying or had the day off. When I told her I was not planning to work for a couple of years she told me "you must be rich". I politely explained that the opposite is true and I'm getting poorer. She laughed, didn't think I needed to explain my daughter's ASD.

I myself hope that my daughter will be ok so I can at least go back to part-time work in 2013.



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29 Jun 2011, 10:01 pm

I think my kid speaks more than most his age but it's mostly non-communicative. Lots of jargon, lots of reciting letters and numbers (his obsession), lots of singing...lots of singing about letters and numbers!

We are trying to get him to be more communicative as right now he's only communicative when he wants something to eat or drink.

Last night we were practicing "What color is this?" Sometimes he answered correctly, but sometimes he answered with "It's what color is this." in an annoyed voice. I don't think he likes being drilled...



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29 Jun 2011, 10:47 pm

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I think my kid speaks more than most his age but it's mostly non-communicative. Lots of jargon, lots of reciting letters and numbers (his obsession), lots of singing...lots of singing about letters and numbers!

We are trying to get him to be more communicative as right now he's only communicative when he wants something to eat or drink.

Last night we were practicing "What color is this?" Sometimes he answered correctly, but sometimes he answered with "It's what color is this." in an annoyed voice. I don't think he likes being drilled...


Sounds exactly like my daughter, how old is your son if you don't mind me asking.



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29 Jun 2011, 11:24 pm

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Sounds exactly like my daughter, how old is your son if you don't mind me asking.


He is three and a couple of months. Your daughter?

I guess I never properly introduced myself here. My kid has some echolalia. He doesn't quote entire TV shows, but he does memorize songs, and changes the words around a lot. Or makes new melodies, that kind of stuff. The "lyrics" are usually numbers. I think this kid is hyperlexic too. For him it's all about the numbers and letters. And he is starting to spell. For example he might point to a cookie and spell it out.

What I really want him to start doing is initiating conversations...all he does now is demand stuff but even that is a relatively recent development.



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30 Jun 2011, 2:05 am

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cyberdad wrote:
Sounds exactly like my daughter, how old is your son if you don't mind me asking.


He is three and a couple of months. Your daughter?

I guess I never properly introduced myself here. My kid has some echolalia. He doesn't quote entire TV shows, but he does memorize songs, and changes the words around a lot. Or makes new melodies, that kind of stuff. The "lyrics" are usually numbers. I think this kid is hyperlexic too. For him it's all about the numbers and letters. And he is starting to spell. For example he might point to a cookie and spell it out.

What I really want him to start doing is initiating conversations...all he does now is demand stuff but even that is a relatively recent development.


Your son sounds quite bright. My daughter just turned 6 this week. She started saying words at 11 months and by 18 months was writing and spelling hippopotamus and elephant. By 3 we realised she wasn't constructing sentences but her vocabulary was fairly good. Yes she also memorises songs and whole stories that she likes.

With hyperlexia our kids learn through repeating sentences through echolalia and transposing them over pictures and stories. My daughter has picked up a number of language rules this way and she decodes the meaning and context.

Her obsession with numbers and words means she is the top student in her class for maths, writing and reading. However I am concerned she still remains quiet as a door mouse at school.



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30 Jun 2011, 2:39 am

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Your son sounds quite bright. My daughter just turned 6 this week. She started saying words at 11 months and by 18 months was writing and spelling hippopotamus and elephant. By 3 we realised she wasn't constructing sentences but her vocabulary was fairly good. Yes she also memorises songs and whole stories that she likes.

With hyperlexia our kids learn through repeating sentences through echolalia and transposing them over pictures and stories. My daughter has picked up a number of language rules this way and she decodes the meaning and context.

Her obsession with numbers and words means she is the top student in her class for maths, writing and reading. However I am concerned she still remains quiet as a door mouse at school.


Thanks. He also created his own sign language for numbers 1-10, so we showed him ASL counting and ABC's on Youtube. He learned this in maybe 2 days.

But when he was evaluated they said he had a cognitive delay. I have the feeling the testing just didn't engage him at all.

How old was your daugher when she started to be able to have conversation (if she is able to do this.)?



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30 Jun 2011, 4:39 am

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blondeambition wrote:
I ultimately decided to quit the job in order to get my son back on track.


You are not alone. Many of us have had to sacrifice jobs. I had an amusing conversation with a girl working at a cash register in a shopping mall. She assumed I was studying or had the day off. When I told her I was not planning to work for a couple of years she told me "you must be rich". I politely explained that the opposite is true and I'm getting poorer. She laughed, didn't think I needed to explain my daughter's ASD.

I myself hope that my daughter will be ok so I can at least go back to part-time work in 2013.


I wish I will quit my job for some months... I noticed that my son progresses more if he stays with me instead of therapists!
It occurred that therapists were absent for 2 months so I replaced them and he progressed more during that 2 months than in the previous 4 months.
I workede less, but my bosses and collegues tolerated me. They know my problems...



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30 Jun 2011, 6:15 am

Both of my kids learned their ABCs and numbers early via children's videos--both my older child (now almost 7 with classic autism) and my younger son (about 3.75 years old with diagnosed OCD and some autism symptoms).

Loads and loads of tests were done on my older son, including a comprehensive IQ test by the local school system. (I have a law degree that I am not using and threatened legal action if they did not do something. This is how I got them to do the IQ test.)

The results of the school district IQ test on my son with classic autism: he scored well above 100 (average) on every area except two. He scored 70 (borderline "mentally deficient" or "mentally" ret*d) on information retrieval and 85 on short-term memory. Information retrieval is where the information is actually inside of the child's head but he/she has trouble pulling it out. You may be able to jog his/her memory with something visual, like written words or pictures, or specific (particularly multiple choice) questions. The school district IQ tester said that poor information retrieval and very different IQ scores on different sections of the test is common.

He did unusually well on a section involving picture word vocabulary (scoring an IQ of 128). He had been worked with on this extensively at home, though.

Anyway, the repeating stuff over and over sounds like echolalia, which my older son had.

In a different post, the child who is quiet as a mouse at school sounds exactly like me, with my childhood selective mutism. (I don't have it anymore, but public speaking is still often a disaster.) I did not talk at all in class in first grade and kept getting sent to the school counselor, but I could talk at home. There were also others (a neighbor child's mom, for instance), that I never talked to.

My son with classic autism had selective mutism, too, until we put him on Prozac and just under age 4. He had been worked with extensively on speech, and the Prozac turned him into an echolalia motor mouth overnight. The focus sort of went from getting him to speak to fixing his speech at that point.


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