27 Oct 2021, 7:57 pm
28 Oct 2021, 5:10 am
29 Oct 2021, 5:00 am
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
29 Oct 2021, 5:04 am
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
How come?
Do you know people who would force someone to get pregnant just to give it up for adoption for $$$?
29 Oct 2021, 4:00 pm
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
How come?
Do you know people who would force someone to get pregnant just to give it up for adoption for $$$?
I have never heard of such a thing.
29 Oct 2021, 4:42 pm
Ettina wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
How come?
Do you know people who would force someone to get pregnant just to give it up for adoption for $$$?
I have never heard of such a thing.
Heard of what?
29 Oct 2021, 10:58 pm
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
How come?
Do you know people who would force someone to get pregnant just to give it up for adoption for $$$?
I do NOT know people who would force someone to get pregnant in order to give it up for adoption in the hopes of getting money. In the United States of America it is illegal to profit from giving up a child for adoption. Babies and children cannot be "sold." Doing a transaction like that would be morally wrong.
30 Oct 2021, 3:29 am
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
How come?
Do you know people who would force someone to get pregnant just to give it up for adoption for $$$?
I do NOT know people who would force someone to get pregnant in order to give it up for adoption in the hopes of getting money. In the United States of America it is illegal to profit from giving up a child for adoption. Babies and children cannot be "sold." Doing a transaction like that would be morally wrong.
No one can force but they can bribe and threaten. And anyway if they go to the courts and the government gets custody then it goes back to the cult because the cult is paying for the government.
30 Oct 2021, 3:30 am
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Itendswithmexx wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
I swear to god, parents literally have no idea how easy their lives are, and how privileged they are! When a parent gets a bad performance review at work, he/she comes home to a comforting hug from his/her spouse and a big shot of whiskey. When a child get a bad grade in school, he/she comes home to an hours-long screaming lecture, strong feelings of guilt and shame, losing TV privileges for two weeks, and making suicide plans to avoid that situation at the next bad grade. And later sneaking whiskey from the liquor cabinet when his/her parents aren't looking, to blur out the nasty feelings, thus starting up a lifelong alcohol habit.
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
Parents WOULDN'T LAST A DAY living their easy, privileged lives as kids again! They'd be looting pharmacies to obtain antidepressants and opioids. Either that, or we'd run out of liquor in a matter of days, if we could magically make parents live like kids again!
You incorrectly assume that all parents act like yours did.
I never gave either of my kids screening lectures or revoked privileges for bad academic performance. I simply asked them why they thought they had gotten the disappointing grade and then supported them.
But I did get to worry if they would get into college, if we’d be able to afford it, and if they would get past their roadblocks to be able to support themselves as adults.
I did get to stay up all night when they were sick but still have to go to work in the morning.
I still take on every worry either of them have, and probably will for life, even though I also know I have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes, and only help when they want me to.
I worry about everything. My job, their job, their health, my health. What would happen if they had to suddenly deal with our estate (they wouldn’t be able to).
We never had whiskey in our house. I hardly ever drink at all; I’ve always had medications that don’t mix with alcohol.
In other words, the balance you describe, the relationship you know, it’s NOT NORMAL. After all these years, I would think you would know that.
Yah would you try and sell your kids uterus ?
Taking your question literally, obviously NO.
I would never want to, and it wouldn't be legal.
Such a strange question. I am puzzled why you would ask.
How come?
Do you know people who would force someone to get pregnant just to give it up for adoption for $$$?
I do NOT know people who would force someone to get pregnant in order to give it up for adoption in the hopes of getting money. In the United States of America it is illegal to profit from giving up a child for adoption. Babies and children cannot be "sold." Doing a transaction like that would be morally wrong.
No one can force but they can bribe and threaten. And anyway if they go to the courts and the government gets custody then it goes back to the cult because the cult is paying for the government. Eh it’s in the best interest of the people with the most $$$$.
30 Oct 2021, 11:24 am
