I would like to post a pitcure of my daughter

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30 Dec 2008, 8:58 am

Whose to say they are and whose to say theyre not and this is silly and our kids are all over the net. I agree you should be careful and protect your daughter; I appreciated that kind of advice thankyou they made sense to me but alot of peoples just don't AND of one - you should ask Check with mods before I post a naked pitcure of her - What a pathetic and disgusting thing to put and YOU make me sick. I think for a person to make such needless and gross sexual comments about an innocent child - in itself seems like paedophilia or a form of &
just to hurt her mom - that is so pathetic. Like real scum they are so low. Macbeth.

I have been expressing alot on the parenting forums simply because I care about my daughter. She is mildly to moderatley autistic. She is attention deficit. She has vestibular processing disorder. I am trying to understand her and of myself more as being her mom and because I have AS to. We both struggle.

If I and her can get along when she stays over. She will be able to come back to live with me. This is her real home and I am her mom. I am the only parent she will ever have. I am her family.

Why people keep going on about paedophiles in this thread, gets on my nerves. Paeds is insignificant to why I posted. The main reason was to know other parents perspective - of posting photos of thier child on the net. Plus safety issues that may be important for me to be aware of & simply because I have never put any photos of her or me on the net before.

Now, I have clarified to others of what I really meant and mostly to other people misunderstandings. Please read and respect this; That I do not want my daughter to be discussed - in regards to paedophiles - any further on this thread.

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30 Dec 2008, 3:25 pm

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Whose to say they are and whose to say theyre not and this is silly and our kids are all over the net. I agree you should be careful and protect your daughter; I appreciated that kind of advice thankyou they made sense to me but alot of peoples just don't AND of one - you should ask Check with mods before I post a naked pitcure of her - What a pathetic and disgusting thing to put and YOU make me sick. I think for a person to make such needless and gross sexual comments about an innocent child - in itself seems like paedophilia or a form of &
just to hurt her mom - that is so pathetic. Like real scum they are so low. Macbeth.

I have been expressing alot on the parenting forums simply because I care about my daughter. She is mildly to moderatley autistic. She is attention deficit. She has vestibular processing disorder. I am trying to understand her and of myself more as being her mom and because I have AS to. We both struggle.

If I and her can get along when she stays over. She will be able to come back to live with me. This is her real home and I am her mom. I am the only parent she will ever have. I am her family.

Why people keep going on about paedophiles in this thread, gets on my nerves. Paeds is insignificant to why I posted. The main reason was to know other parents perspective - of posting photos of thier child on the net. Plus safety issues that may be important for me to be aware of & simply because I have never put any photos of her or me on the net before.

Now, I have clarified to others of what I really meant and mostly to other people misunderstandings. Please read and respect this; That I do not want my daughter to be discussed - in regards to paedophiles - any further on this thread.

Thankyou.


When did either of us make needless or gross sexual comments about a child? I pointed out the unlikelihood of there being an issue in posting a picture, and Lady Macbeth pointed up that a picture which could be or wasinterpreted as having sexual content would no doubt be swiftly removed by the mods anyway. . what you have said about us is gravely offensive as it is rude, insulting, and massively and utterly wrong.

And as for why people are discussing paedophiles in this thread.. maybe, just maybe, its because of this opening post:

"My daughter is a really pretty little girl and I would love to post a photo to share with the other parents but I am afraid paedophiles being able to view it."

Correct me if I am wrong, but that post somewhat invites the discussion of paedophiles on the net, dont you think? It insinuates just a touch that you are perhaps a little worried about paedophiles on the net, and posting pics of your child. If they were so insignificant as a part of the thread subject WHY MENTION IT AT ALL?

And when other parents do post their responses to your query, it would be somewhat politic and good form to not accuse them of being nonce scum based on utterly misreading their posts.. don't you think?


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30 Dec 2008, 3:25 pm

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Whose to say they are and whose to say theyre not and this is silly and our kids are all over the net. I agree you should be careful and protect your daughter; I appreciated that kind of advice thankyou they made sense to me but alot of peoples just don't AND of one - you should ask Check with mods before I post a naked pitcure of her - What a pathetic and disgusting thing to put and YOU make me sick. I think for a person to make such needless and gross sexual comments about an innocent child - in itself seems like paedophilia or a form of &
just to hurt her mom - that is so pathetic. Like real scum they are so low. Macbeth.

I have been expressing alot on the parenting forums simply because I care about my daughter. She is mildly to moderatley autistic. She is attention deficit. She has vestibular processing disorder. I am trying to understand her and of myself more as being her mom and because I have AS to. We both struggle.

If I and her can get along when she stays over. She will be able to come back to live with me. This is her real home and I am her mom. I am the only parent she will ever have. I am her family.

Why people keep going on about paedophiles in this thread, gets on my nerves. Paeds is insignificant to why I posted. The main reason was to know other parents perspective - of posting photos of thier child on the net. Plus safety issues that may be important for me to be aware of & simply because I have never put any photos of her or me on the net before.

Now, I have clarified to others of what I really meant and mostly to other people misunderstandings. Please read and respect this; That I do not want my daughter to be discussed - in regards to paedophiles - any further on this thread.

Thankyou.


Whoa, whoa, WHOA my dear. READ posts properly before calling people sick and twisted. I didn't say you have to check with mods before posting a naked picture up of your child whatsofuckingever. I too think that would be sick, as it IS wrong. I said that they would have a problem with someone (NOT YOU PERSONALLY, I DID NOT INSINUATE YOU WOULD) posting a naked picture of a child. And rightly so.

I am a parent, and I don't mind posting pictures of my children up - as I did in the Members Only thread. I would not do that if I thought someone could get off on them fully clothed and climbing on their dad. They have ASDs, as do I, as does Macbeth, so I understand you wanting to understand your child, as do I with mine.

Don't you dare call me scum. That is out of order and abuse. I was the one wondering why people were talking about paedophilia IN THE FIRST PLACE, as there was NO REASON TO.


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30 Dec 2008, 6:19 pm

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My daughter is a really pretty little girl and I would love to post a photo to share with the other parents but I am afraid paedophiles being able to view it.


Why don't you want them to view it? AFAIK, not all of them are rapist. They just see children sexually, like we see 'adults'. I think [Random Person] is sexy. I don't go an rape her. Same with them, I would believe. And how would she be harmed, if a pedo would see her photo?

...and why is being a paedophile such a huge taboo recently? Hell, even if it's 3 months underage, you're disgusting.. Blah. In Iceland, the age of, uhm.. when you could legally f**k anyone (who accepted) used to be 13. Then it's suddenly 15. And it's 18 in the USA? What the hell...



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30 Dec 2008, 6:23 pm

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My daughter is a really pretty little girl and I would love to post a photo to share with the other parents but I am afraid paedophiles being able to view it.


Why don't you want them to view it? AFAIK, not all of them are rapist. They just see children sexually, like we see 'adults'. I think [Random Person] is sexy. I don't go an rape her. Same with them, I would believe. And how would she be harmed, if a pedo would see her photo?

...and why is being a paedophile such a huge taboo recently? Hell, even if it's 3 months underage, you're disgusting.. Blah. In Iceland, the age of, uhm.. when you could legally f**k anyone (who accepted) used to be 13. Then it's suddenly 15. And it's 18 in the USA? What the hell...


This is the result of outside interference. In Japan it's still 13, not sure how long it's going to last, though, before the US government sticks its nose where it doesn't belong again. They already pushed Japan to illegalize CP recently. But I don't think that this will continue forever, not sure how much longer it's going to take, but I think that things will be much...interesting when China takes over the world. By the way, have already begun your study of the Chinese language?



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30 Dec 2008, 6:26 pm

Anime fanboy, will learn Japanese. Hopefully.

And, if I remember right, japanese porn is censored, making it more or less legal & not pornographic. Or some shite like that.

ANYWAY. Offtopic. Will shut up now. I think.



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30 Dec 2008, 7:15 pm

It's paedogeddon! Srsly.

If you post a photo of anything anywhere in a public place on the Internet it'll be out there for all to see (and copy). Usually no harm ever comes unless you include identifying information like name, address, school and so on, which would be a pretty daft thing to put out there. The same rules really apply when disclosing details about yourself.

And if a paedo were to misuse a photo, so what? At least the evil little scrote isn't out hurting real kids.

Honestly, people are so paranoid these days. We might as all well live under burqas if life's going to be like this.



30 Dec 2008, 7:45 pm

I always thought pedophile was pronounced ped-oh-file.

Yeah I agree, people are paranoid these days. I wrote a while back in my myspace blog about parents being paranoid over pedophiles.

If I had a child, I wouldn't freak out if I saw a strange man on the playground. I am there with my child so why does it matter? it's not like he will try and take my child because I am there.
I see lot of kids these days unattended by an adult so what i think is when parents hear about a pedophile being in town, they throw a fit and want that person out because they are too lazy to do their jobs. Taking their kid to the playground and staying there to watch them, taking them to school, etc. But no, they just let them go off by themselves and parents complain about a pedophile? Hypocrites. They would rather make their jobs easier by not accompying their children so they want the pedo out so they wouldn't have to watch their kids since they are so worried. I am sure they taught their kids about strangers or maybe they didn't.


My parents never allowed my brothers and I to leave our neighborhood when we were little. When we be in Wisconsin, we were not allowed to leave our grandparents house without a grown up. When we visit my aunt there, we could not go to the playground alone which was in her neighborhood.



30 Dec 2008, 8:00 pm

Just finished watching the video.


Oh no my bf better start wearing tighter pants and we better stop swinging are arms as we are standing, if we have that stim. :lol:



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30 Dec 2008, 9:39 pm

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I always thought pedophile was pronounced ped-oh-file.



It's "peed", as in paediatrics.


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30 Dec 2008, 11:14 pm

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I always thought pedophile was pronounced ped-oh-file.



It's "peed", as in paediatrics.


You're in he UK, RIGHT!?!?!? You guys still think niche is pronounced NEESH! :lol: :lol: :lol:



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31 Dec 2008, 2:31 am

Thankyou for your reply Macbeth explaining what you meant. I apologise I took it the wrong way. I was really angry but I didn't call you scum. I put it is scum people that joke about paedophiles and say sick stuff about thier children to the parent. I never directly attack or put down people because you can misunderstand people. I always like to know what they really meant first. So I am very sorry to have insinuated that to you because I thought you was insinuating that to me.
I misunderstood and so have appreciated your explanation.

I know with my posts I have put something of what not I meant at all. I just put the sentences all wrong and pleased I can re edit.



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31 Dec 2008, 8:43 am

2ukenkerl wrote:
LadyMacbeth wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
I always thought pedophile was pronounced ped-oh-file.



It's "peed", as in paediatrics.


You're in he UK, RIGHT!?!?!? You guys still think niche is pronounced NEESH! :lol: :lol: :lol:


Erm, yes. Because it isn't an English word. And it's pronounced in the original way, as it should be.


And thanks for the apology, BellaDonna.


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