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inca
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17 Jun 2009, 6:13 am

at 15 a prostitute is not an option. When someone wants something so bad they will do anything to get it as in an addiction. It was not an attraction for him it was an obsession with the act. I believe he would have chosen it with anyone. Its just eisier to manipulate a 5 year old than another 15 year old. We have been working with boundry issues for the past 6 years. We have been to many therapist and we have a strict christian home. Sex is shown everywhere in our societ and can easily become an obsession for children. Espcially an AS since they are centered around thier obsessions anyway. Our discussion with my son in the past in regards to sex was that in order for sex the two things that had to be present were consent and privacy. These he had. We failed to explain that you cannot get conscent from a child. We are looking into the possibilty that he was abused as a child since he has only been with me and his father for 7 years. anything could have happended to him prior to that.



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17 Jun 2009, 6:30 am

inca wrote:
at 15 a prostitute is not an option.

No less an option than abusing a child.

inca wrote:
When someone wants something so bad they will do anything to get it as in an addiction. It was not an attraction for him it was an obsession with the act. I believe he would have chosen it with anyone. Its just easier to manipulate a 5 year old than another 15 year old.

Well maybe that is true it is not like typical attraction, but obsession with an act is form of attraction. Not necessarily to a specific person I conceded. However i don't buy that it could have been anyone. Yes in the general sense you couldn't have predicted this, but everyone has tastes.

inca wrote:
We are looking into the possibilty that he was abused as a child since he has only been with me and his father for 7 years. anything could have happended to him prior to that.

I also think this is a possibility that is worth looking into.